Do the tests ever stop? Nope, they only slow down.

The hot dog fight is past us. We have gotten completely moved in and through my new "get shit done" attitude we have managed to get everything done in the new home in less than a month. She even gives me progress reports when I get home, and hope I throw her a treat. I occasionally do. Hard work is rewarded, she has at least learned that.

As a special guest appearance my mother in law came to stay the weekend. I agreed to this because it was only 3 nights. We can survive that. On the first night I had made a big deal of me always burning pizzas in the grill. I made the time to go buy three pizzas and god damn it they were going to be cooked to perfection. Wife is baulking the whole time and telling me "You dont get to be the master of everything". She is a very harsh judge of my trying new recipes and methods. Has been since I met her. We are sitting outside grilling and swilling. Pizzas are cooked perfectly. She even gives me a pat on the back and tells me I guess you are the master of everything. We sit down and everyone is going on about how much better the pizza is.

Compliance and Shit Test:

Setup: I am seated at the head of the table. Wife is to the left, Mother in Law(MIL) is to the right. Son is down two chairs on the right. Point is, Wife and mother in law are face to face.

Her: (Flicks her paper plate at me, looks at her mom) Get me some more pizza.

Me: (Laughing) I ain't done with mine yet, you are going to have to wait.

Her: (Gets up after a few minutes) I guess Ill get it myself.

Me: (Silence)

Son: Mom, get me another slice please.

Her: (Plops it down on his plate and sits down noticeably pissed off)

Me: I can't believe how humid it is outside. Son, would you like to play basketball after dinner?

What happened was she wanted to show her mother that I was the obedient little beta provider and all my work that I have put in meant nothing. Showing off her betabux so mom can see she has it on lock. If I had failed, all the months would have meant nothing. Turns out her plan didnt work so well did it? Silence and hamster permeates the next few hours. Light conversations and basically doing our own thing until 9pm or so. Later that night I get a BJ that she initiated to completion while sitting on the couch. For the first time in a long time she locks eye contact while she does it the entire time. Even asks me if I will finish this time. Next day she is about ten times more obedient and submissive. When I say this one must understand that she is an extremely strong willed independent individual.

Saturday is a breeze of a day. We do alot of shopping and get some more items for the house, because in her eyes there is always something else to do. Spend the day together rather happily. We grill and swill again, steaks this time. She gets my beers without being asked. We talk about moving to Texas and moving up our target year to 2017 instead of 2018. Audibly tells me that she is really excited to plan our future together. Which as many of you know, divorce was ongoing in March-May or so. Red pill has really turned this around. We literally went from papers filed and lawyers to completely mending it. I never once brought up the prospect of stopping it. I showed OI, IDGAF, lifted, passed her shit tests which were really amp'ed up. She came to me to stop the divorce after our big event. We talked like adults about it. In the end, I think she was pissed that she had to leave because I wouldn't alpha up again. Alpha came back stronger than ever, because I really had nothing to lose. I could only win. Also, there might have been another man involved that she had as her exit strategy and just maybe my game was stronger than his. Nothing like being tested and passing right? If she told me that though, Next!

Sunday morning we were all going to this really nice restaurant for breakfast that I was paying for. Notice I said I, because its my money now. In the car ride over there was another little conversation. My mother-in-law and my wife are ganging up on my son. He is born pure alpha and thats just not me thinking that. He literally gives no fucks about other people unless it somehow benefits him. Especially girls. At his age he is just starting to like them, but if they dont do what he wants them to do "NEXT!".

Whatever the fuck this is test:

MIL: Now sonny, you have to make sure you keep the women in your life happy. Because if they are happy then everyone is happy.

Wife: Thats right son. Always make sure your girl is happy.

Me: Don't listen to them son. Their happiness is not your problem. You work on you and they will be happy about that.

Him: Thanks dad.

Dead silence falls about the car. Eventually I bring up what everyone is wanting for breakfast. Everyone pipes in and we have a nice rest of the car ride. Later that day my wife brings it up to me. She tells me, shitting you not captains, thank you for telling our son that in front of my mom. She needed to hear that more than him. She thanks me for taking him and doing more manly stuff with him. There has been a big production of him needing to learn how to be a man. I take him to the homebrew stores now, play basketball with him, and gave him a little talk about how he should be treating girls. Hint: Be a skittles man.

That afternoon we eventually are hanging up pictures. Some pictures really upset her and she started to break down crying. That is a comfort test. I don't say anything and I just walk over and grab her up and give her a big hug and a kiss on the cheek. Some moments later we get back to hanging pictures. The reason for her crying wasn't important. She got upset and I comforted her. No words or begging her to tell me what's wrong. Big strong hug and comfort test is passed. It's that easy my fellow captains. Son goes to his lock in and we spend the rest of the night doing our own thing. Go to bed. On the way up MIL wants to make a final call to her other daughter that lives in a far far away land. So my wife apologizes to me and goes to facetime with her mom and sister. Half hour later I am half asleep and half naked on the bed. She comes in and says "oh shit" quietly and turns off the light and locks the door. Immediately starts with the BJ to wake me up and we have amazing caveman style sex. She even starts asking me to push her around and onto the bed.

Throughout the weekend all she does is bitch to me about her mom. As part of normal conversation. Mostly because her walker wakes us up non-fucking stop all night long. We live for days on almost no sleep. As she goes on and on I only answer uh-huh, yeah, i totally get that that, that's whatever you were talking about for you, etc.... As we all know she does not want me to help her with the problem, she just wants to use me as her emotional tampon. She doesn't want me to say "I would do this" or "How does that make you feel" or "Please tell me more about how much of a bitch your mom is". Sex game is redic so I reward her with some of that. She has come to the conclusion that I just get it. A little amused mastery on the really big items helps grease the conversation along. Eventually she stops on her own and changes the subject to something I want to talk about it. Also thanks me for listening to her rant. This also makes her feel like she can talk to me.

To make a long story longer I will give a quick update on whats been happening in the last month since my last field report. For one, my strength is noticeable and that makes her panties wet. Without lifting, nothing else matters, is the best rule in MRP. Constant comments about how strong I am now and that I can literally pick her up. It really does get her excited. Shit tests and comfort tests are passed and I am not even thinking about them any more. It's just become the way I am. RP is internalized. I spent the last month working on my game and kino with my friend on strange women in bars. I've had some big successes and failures so I take what I learn and use it on my wife. I openly flirt with girls in front of my wife and don't even look back for a reaction. I have showed and reminded my wife plenty that my time is valuable and I don't waste it any more. I use NMMNG to start and WISNIFG to be assertive in my professional and personal life. It works. I use my MMSLP to fix my sex life with my wife. The results are more than you can imagine as I've gone from once a month to once or twice a day. I've been lucky in my choice of life partner. She craved the red pill, I just needed to provide it.

TL;DR

Wife tries to prove my BB and I stand up for myself. Later I stand up for myself and my son. Everything works out perfectly. Pass a comfort test and rewarded big time. Don't try to help her with her problems and that means I just get it. Wife is happier and is helping plan our future together instead of apart.