Do BP men cheat?

En_sigma · 2014-09-09T13:01:16+00:00

Short answer, yes. Statistically, there will be an opportunity and the man will take it.

Longer answer is - there is a LOT less chance for it to happen and when an affair does rear its ugly head, it is with a low-scoring female. I have a ton of anecdotal evidence from people I know, and usually when you see who they had an affair it ends up being someone who is less attractive (in a yikes-sort-of-way ) and you have to wonder what they were thinking. The larger section of married betas don't have the attraction required to start hitting above their weight. Not to say that beta husbands are all ugly, but looks are not always what start affairs.

UEMcGill · 2014-09-09T13:13:06+00:00

I think the answer is abso-fucking-lutely. Because they are AFC's all the way. They think that they have been doing it right all along, bowing to her emotions. Being Mr Beta-Bux, cleaning around the house because that's what cosmo said to get laid more. Entering in to covert contracts to try and get the pussy they want. On and on, I could go.

But, I believe its because the guy is unplugged. A true Red Pill man knows he has choices. He knows that its a world of abundance and that at any moment he can upgrade his LTR. A blue pill guy feels he has no choice, so he cheats.

Ironically, he may act Alpha to get the pussy that he cheats with, but he does it because he's blue pill.

Hypnot0ad · 2014-09-09T13:13:04+00:00

Well, the scenario you described is what caused me to wake up in the first place. I was like the BP guy in your story. Though the thing is, I was never really a beta before that relationship. I wasn't truly alpha - I failed shit tests all my life because I didn't know any better. But I generally had a DGAF attitude that helped things.

The problem came when I dated a girl in college. She was smoking hot, smart, etc. So I thought I had found my unicorn and put her on a pedestal. We stayed together after college and things were great for a few years until they weren't. Because I was constantly acting like her beta bucks, she predictably lost attraction to me. I was devastated by our dead bedroom and tried upping the blue pill behavior in true nice guy fashion.

When nothing worked, I got depressed, started hating all women. If my unicorn was no longer what I thought she was, then all those other women were even worse in my mind. The weird thing is that when I started treating women like that they were all of a sudden attracted to me again. I've always lifted and kept in shape so when I started acted alpha the floodgates opened. I hadn't yet found TRP, so I had trouble reconciling what was happening. But it's true, I blamed her for "not appreciating" all I did for her, not fully understanding that it was my BP behaviors and my fault.

In retrospect, I should have just man'd up and broke up with her instead of cheating. But I didn't have a compete red pill understanding and in the back of my mind I still had hope that we could work things out somehow.

The crazy part is that in the end when she found out, she all of a sudden was attracted to me again, because I had finally taken her off the pedestal. But by then my unicorn was just like every other female so I said Next!

I only wish this sub reddit existed one year earlier - would have saved me a lot of time.

Glenbert · 2014-09-13T15:43:30+00:00

Of course they do. BP guy is more likely to lose his wife's attraction. BP guy is more likely to unintentionally (rather than intentionally) attract another woman at some point. BP guy is more likely to think that this potential pussy is a gift from the gods, rather than something he could actively get. BP guy is more likely to treat this potential pussy like an oasis in a desert and go for it, no matter the consequences.

And then there's the emotional "affair." Jesus. If you're going to break your wife's heart, you should at least get your dick wet in the process. Total BP move.

The most alpha guys i know aren't married. But the most alpha of the married guys i know seem like the least likely to cheat. Alphas know what they want and they are wherever they are because they want to be there.

Title	Do BP men cheat?
Author	LeggyBlueEyes
Upvotes	6
Comments	10
Date	September 9, 2014 12:20 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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