Add flair: Acolyte.
Presently: I'm lagging in every area, but there are also real improvements; after 3 years of TRP i should be much better placed than this.
The 'ask' part is asking for any opinions or advice people care to offer. Also, does anyone else feel like "all the other guys are crushing it, why can't I?"
'It' meaning the Red Pill.
Fitness; i go to the gym regular but have not got abs or swole. What the hell am i doing?
I'll implement 90 days monk mode from Jan 1st to correct my diet and fitness.
I'm going for a lean look so I'm taking up mma, it is something i always wanted to do. I will have to let go of weightlifting/ body building since i need to cut fat a lot more than i need bulk. I can train bjj/mma 5 nights a week and I'm committing to be there regularly for the next 12months.
I could post a body shot if it helps but maybe not within this post.
I am learning and implementing r/keto at this time.
Game:- I've made leaps and bounds improvement however my dates are all still in my age range, I'm 40yo at this time. I'm still unable to hit the young women that i would prefer - no kids, more attractive, more available time etc.
I have gone backwards and I'm in credit card debt, with no hope of real wealth in sight.
Options- get a security license and a 2nd job in that field.
Or study finance for the year and start a side business doing bookwork for small business, or simply go into it full-time - it is a better paid industry than construction which is where im stuck right now.
Also - I'm quitting drinking permanently. It simply does not help with energy, fitness, testosterone levels or financially. I can't afford to be dragging that anchor around.
Reading- reading is a key element of trp, i get it done using audiobooks in my car as my static time is so rare. Having said that i need to cut out games to create more productive time.
Yoga- Thursdays. You may laugh but i need to balance the constant masculine parts of my life with some meditation and stretching. Also, hotties. Everywhere.
Sex- game takes time and energy that i presently don't have, it may be simpler to tap a hottie for $200 once in a while. I will never be MGTOW but i respect it's logic, i can use that approach for a time while i refocus.
Last night i dated a 43yo woman who was very pleasant, i tapped her but she didn't look great naked and it cost me $100 or so for the date, and she lives about 45k from my place. Pushing successfully through her lmr was a win for me, in the past i have been too polite and respectful of their wishes and lost some opportunities that way.
My Partner count is presently 30, counting strictly.
The goal of this plan is to be financially stsble and physically fit by 2020, then resume Game when i am happier with myself and life in general.