Hey askMRP,

I've read a few MRP-related books (NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG included) and a dozen of posts on MRP. One key thought I've seen was regarding rewarding good behavior and punishing bad one. I'd like to see this applied to an example.

In those scenarios I assume that some level of intimacy was established between us before.

Let's say I want to kiss a girl when we say goodbye but all she does is just turn her cheek for a peck, not a normal kiss in the lips. This is disrespectful for me. Should this be punished or rather ignored? My strategy so far was to not kiss at all and say "I don't want a peck on the cheek".

What if she does what I want? How should it be rewarded? I guess I would say "good girl" with a cheeky smile.

Another scenario: I want to grab her hand, but she withdraws. Again, ignore or punish? How to reward if she does what I requested?