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Cycle / frequency

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December 5, 2017
6 upvotes

Having read Rollo Tomassi's article here, my wife is strongly in the "The best case: She initiates during her fertile period if you don’t. She gets cravings for your D." category, but this seems to be the only time she is really into it (i.e. she is not opposed to having sex the rest of the month, but it's a bit star-fishy and often she does not climax, although she seems to enjoy the intimacy). For this reason, I'm hardly initiating at all (since she will when she really wants it).

My "dilemma" is that I will not get a hard no from her (some obvious circumstances excluded where she is really tired or sick) because she is very accommodating in general and I would feel a bit abusive exploiting this fact.

TL;DR is there a common strategy for dealing with a wife who enjoys sex during the fertile part of the cycle, but is indifferent (but not outright negative) otherwise?


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Title Cycle / frequency
Author pmf
Upvotes 6
Comments 14
Date 05 December 2017 05:31 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/205102
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/7hr8t6/cycle_frequency/
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[–]hystericalbonding13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm hardly initiating at all (since she will when she really wants it).

Lesbian bed death - great sex but rarely happens, each waiting for the other to initiate, neither does, until sex doesn't happen at all.

is there a common strategy for dealing with a wife who enjoys sex during the fertile part of the cycle, but is indifferent (but not outright negative) otherwise?

SGM, lifting, the sidebar, and don't expect every session to be pornstar sex. Have you read the Book of Pook yet? Get outside her head, outside her frame, and fuck when you want to fuck.

[–]SteelToeShitKickerRed Beret10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agree 100% with HB.

and I would feel a bit abusive exploiting this fact

You would feel abusive that your wife wants to give you sex even if she isn't entirely into it? Sometimes I fuck the wife if I'm not entirely into it (not often I admit, I'm usually into it) but I certainty don't feel abused.

OP, get off twitter, stop reading about #MeToo. You aren't abusing your wife.

[–]Rollo-TomassiManosphere Icon5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

I've reached the stage in my marriage where I'd rather bang my wife 1-2 times a week and have her really into it than enforce some obligated sex quotas and have her do it 7 times a week and only be into it 1-2 times.

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm with you, but I'm betting at least someone will say, "But she should want it from me every day! How do I make her want it all the time?"

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

What do YOU want in terms of sex, frequency, enthusiasm? Lead her to that.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

My wife was like this because of low female T.

Sometimes (when your hawt) a woman CAN have a hormone imbalance that will cause this.

Are you hawt? If so a $100 blood-work panel from Private Medical Labs might tell you some insights into her hormones.

Don’t waste your money if your not hawt.

[–]pmf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Are you hawt?

Luke warm, at most.

Don’t waste your money if your not hawt.

Low testosterone may actually be an issue, given that my wife is generally very non-bitchy.

[–]Senor_Martillo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nah. Bang away. Sometimes they just ain't into it. I have an almost identical situation. Different only in that I don't feel bad.

Never star fishing would be fantastic, but life is what it is. Be the most attractive partner you can, and let the chips fall where they may.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ya, too bad your missing the hamster running wild of the constant 'rejections from the husband" she "feelz"

She gets tired of giving you signals and gets aggressive once a month

wake up and watch what she does

[–]TurdDoctor3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Do you fuck your wife for her, or for you? Why do you care if she has an orgasm? Don’t be a pussy, it’s her job to get an orgasm during sex, not your job. Kill your ego and stop looking for validation by her orgasm. Be attractive, game her all times of her cycle.

[–]maximizingvibration0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I just posted something around initiating. Because of the dead bedroom and me having to get through all of this material- as I read I am even questioning whether or not I have been as masculine and black and white as I should be.

I have realized that me wanting sex is either me becoming affectionate at night when we go lay down together. Perhaps I am in the gray area too

[–]straius0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just focus on upping your game and kino. Follow hysterical's advice on readings if you need ideas. Find novel situations or places in the house you don't normally have sex, grind and try to get her turned on in public places, etc...

Just play with it.

[–]mrpCamper0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

So, when she is horny, she is into sex. Her hormones can get her into the mood but you can't. So, what do you do. Be more desireable.

[–]pmf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Her hormones can get her into the mood but you can't.

That's what I suspect is the case, and that's why I found the article I quoted pretty strange (i.e. I don't agree wit the conclusion that the woman's on-cycle behavior can be used as a gauge for general attraction).



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