Reading the sidebar on a Kindle

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August 7, 2017

Just a quick note for guys starting out. Fucking read the side bar...but if you download sidebar books to your Kindle, make sure you don't have a shared account with your SO set to syc purchases between devices. Check the settings and know what you're doing.

In June my wife says to me "You bought some marriage books on Kindle???" Shit yeah, MMSLP and the professor's book were on both of our Kindles because it was set to syn all devices. I recovered as best I could and deleted those from her Kindle, she hasn't spoken about it since.

I was a fuck-tard, don't be me. Be smart. Don't talk about fight club or let her know ANYTHING about fight club.

Edit: no damage done

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Title Reading the sidebar on a Kindle
Author TurdDoctor
Upvotes 11
Comments 12
Date 07 August 2017 10:12 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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[–]screechhaterRed Beret5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just own what you do. Don't make any promises and start reading Above all STFU and avoid DEERing a response.

"Are you unhappy ?" "Yes. I am". "Why ?" "I'll let you know when I figure it out .... ". The end. Change the subject

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

"Damage done"? What damage was done? She always believed you were a bitch, but by deleting the books and not owning your shit you just confirmed her suspicions.

I have a "family" account with Amazon. I have my email log in, my wife has hers. I'm not sure if our book purchases are shared or not, I never checked. But I don't care. Only someone with a weak frame should give a shit.

Her: "You bought some marriage books on Kindle?!?!?"

Me: "Yup."

Her: "OMG? Why? Are you not happy?"

Me: "Do you think we have a perfect marriage?" (Pressure flip)

Her: "Well I did but now I'm not so sure!"

Me: "Well...there's something you can do to convince me that we do" (start unzipping your pants)

Her: "OMG your disgusting!"

Me: "I thought you said I was perfect?"

And around and around you go. Own your shit. There is a beautiful comfort in living a completely truthful and honest life.

[–]SepeanRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

There is a beautiful comfort in living a completely truthful and honest life.

There is nothing comfortable for a new guy in his wife finding he is reading red pill stuff. If your SMV is high and frame is strong it's not a big deal, but for a new guy it's a huge complication.

[–]TurdDoctor[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

That was back in June and nothing came of it. I said "yeah I bought those books, I don't know why they went to your Kindle." That was the extent of the conversation. Never a word again, I think its because she doesn't want to have THAT conversation. I like your reply better though.

A few weeks before that happened I bought her a printed copy of "First Kill all the Marriage Counselors" and gave it to her saying that she might like it. I don't think she read it, maybe that was a pussy move.

I wouldn't deny fight club, but its not smart to give her all my sidebar books either. They are to make me better, not for her to read.

I hope that someone else can learn from my stupidity. I have one account with one login/password that goes to both of our 2 Kindles. They can be set to sync or not. Be smart and don't sync or better yet have separate login/passwords.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

nothing came of it

never a word again

I'm confused. If nothing happened, how was the "damage done"?

[–]TurdDoctor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Point taken, no damage was done.

[–]WildeVy9000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Your next purchase should be the Kama Sutra, synced to her device, definately synced.

[–]chachaChad0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I used to be afraid that the wife would find my kindle books or that she wouldn't like the books I read. I got over. She's commented a few times when I've fucked up about the crazy stuff I'm reading. I agree and amplify and tell her I'll read what I like.

I'm fucking tired of being a pussy and trying to make someone else happy at my expense. Fuck that. Read NMMNG then WISNIFG.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"Hey, the benefit of having Kindles are we can both read them at the same time."

If you ever feel like you're sudden caught with your pants down, just start dancing like you meant to.

Instead of "Sorry maam, allowest me to delete the offending words from thine eyes!"

Either way just keep on with it. The only additional shit-test you'll encounter (and now can be prepped for) is "What, did you read that in one of your books" or "Is this you or the books".

Make it the new you. Indistinguishable from what was written.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"yes I did."

" blah bla"

" Because I wanted to read them"

"Well I think they are dumb"

" Cool. not sure if you are implying that I am dumb , or just sharing"

[–]mindfulbutgutlessRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

this should be stickied to the top of the NMMNG sub as well. Fucking Mr Glover says talk to your wife, fortunately The BluepillProfessor's book was my first reading.

[–]BigB19010 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This stuff should not be a secret just don't share details or talk about and all will be good. She will not read more than a few pages, from that she will thinking you banging every women you talk too. It all positives in my view, adds a little dread into the mix.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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