7y together, both 32yo, no kids, recently she started talking about having them.
We had a huge fight after I suggested us doing a big trip this summer and she eventually said she wants alone time to figure out what she wants in life. This escalated into her saying that she feels this relationship is going nowhere and provides her no stability. When I asked what makes her feel this way, the answers of course were very vague.
I took the pill about 7-8 month ago. Doing the work and my frame improved significantly. My career is shaky since I am in transition from a field I never liked but had good money to an artistic field which has no guarantees. I do have a solid plan though and have no significant financial issues.
I did not try to argue, just asked her some questions which she could not answer and eventually said that it seems I can't do anything about that feeling of hers and maybe we should split if she sees no future or stability with me.
Any suggestions? I really do want to break up. This is not the first time we have a fight like that or I get a general vibe from her of not being sure about me or the relationship.
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