So I'm new to RP, I've just begun the sidebar and I'm learning a lot. Don't have much insight nor will I claim to have any when it comes to this stuff. So I'm here help. I'm starting to lift and learning new things that I'm implementing but im still a newbie.

So my girlfriend last night told me she doesn't it like it when I'm always grabbing her ass and is upset at herself because she's never in the mood to have sex. She's never been one for physical affection and I didn't mind it because we used to have sex often so I didn't care. I do care though because I am fond of physical affection and I've told her this a while ago. She said that maybe I should find someone that does that for me but told her that won't be the case.

She says that she feels like a piece of meat and that she feels disrespected. She also said maybe she'd be more inclined to have sex if she felt more respected. This topic was brought up because I decided to not hangout with her after I got off work and she said that if she offered sex I would be there and that lately I've been trying to initiate too much. She also mentioned how she used to want to have sex but now she doesn't feel it all. I kept asking reassuring things (which was stupid) about whether she was happy and still found me attractive.

I understand that I need to read the sidebar and better myself overall. And that it is my fault that she doesn't want to have sex because I can be more attractive to her physically and mentally. But is there any advice I can get for this specific situation? Thanks.