I have been swallowing the redpill for less than 2 weeks. So, I'm still a newbie.

I know my wife since college, for about 9 years now. We got married 2 years ago. We have been in LDR (i know) for the last 3.5 years. We meet once every 4-5 months (she lives on the other side of the globe). My wife finally found a job in the same city and is moving in.

Here is the situation: for the last 3-4 years I have been acting very bluepill with with random bursts of redpill. But getting better for the last month - holding frame, lifting.

She started acting weird over the last 1.5months- looking down on me, random outbursts, name calling. I have been holding frame and do not call back. She calls me back after a week or so, but the call ends ugly almost all the time. And the cycle repeats.

We last spoke 1 week ago - When I asked her when her flight will land and that I'll pick her up, She told me that her company is giving her accommodation and she will stay there. I said she can do whatever she wants. she told me that my life is a joke. I laughed and asked her what else had she observed. She hung up the phone and we have not spoken since.

She is boarding a flight in less than 24 hrs and will be here in 48 hrs from now.

I understand that she is being a total bitch, but also recognise that she is moving to a new country (was for me, but don't know if it is true anyone. Don't know if I am over reacting)

What should I do now?

  1. Message her that I'll see her at the airport

  2. Do not message her at all. Just show up at the airport

  3. When I pick her up, should I forget what has happened and just meet her with a smiling face?

  4. Not sure how she will react. What if she continues to act like a bitch?

  5. When she comes home, should I be sweet? Indifferent? How should I act?

PS: sorry if some of these questions are too naive. I am still still new to RP.