I've read the entire sidebar, lift 6 days a week, and I mostly pass shit tests. I'm even getting pretty good at A&A and Amused mastery. Been married for almost a decade.

I noticed my wife's pussy has always been kinda loose, and I attribute it to giving childbirth. She had one child, and his dad comes from a line of very big shoulders. Long story short, he tore her up pretty good in the delivery.

It hasn't been too much of an issue over the time we've been together. I've been able to get past it since she turns me on so much, and sometimes I use Cialis.

Here's where the problem came in. The last few weeks, she has been under an extraordinary amount of stress at work, and I've been less turned on by her because she's been tired and more cranky than usual. I've also failed more shit tests than normal for a little bit, but my frame is back again, solid as a rock for a few days, and I plan on keeping that way. So, the lessor attraction has caused me to have issues finishing. Over the last few weeks, I have almost zero "no's", but I've only finished a couple times. It seems like I can hardly feel any friction... but like I said that has always been there, but the lessor attraction has left me unable to cum on several occasions.

Tonight, I had "the talk" with her. I prefaced it with, "I want to tell you something, and I'm going to say it as nice as I can." Then, I told her that I've been having problems cumming because I'm getting so little friction. I suggested that she should get the vaginoplasty surgery. Of course, she was kind of crushed, but at the same time, I offered a solution, and I presented it very respectfully, so it actually went over pretty well, overall. She also confided that a previous LTR told her that her pussy was "big." I got the impression he said it and used it in an abusive way though... so there was already some baggage there.

She gave me the go ahead to start looking into some doctors and lining up the surgery. I suspect most good doctors are probably several months out, but I'll find out more tomorrow. When I was doing crunches and planks earlier, she mumbled under her breath "maybe you want a girl with a better pussy and who works out more." I considered this a comfort test, and I just cuddled up behind her and hugged her for a bit. I said, "we've had great sex for almost a decade, and we've had a couple bad weeks, but I expect us to continue to have great sex. Now, we have a solution for the rough patches." AND, really the sex has been great up until recently, it's just been a rough few weeks, and I feel like it was getting to a point where I needed to address it, so I did.

In the meantime, I plan on continuing lifting, reading, gaming, social life, and I"m starting a new career venture which should keep me pretty busy... basically continuing to raise my SMV.

I don't know if I have a specific question other than does anyone have experience in this area? I'm also open to critique as to how I handled it and suggestions for handling it going forth.

update I just had a conversation with her. I asked her to do kegels every day for the next week and let's see if that helps. In the meantime, she really doesn't have time this week to look into the doctors, so I am going to start doing that a little bit. But, ultimately I told her it's her pussy and she's going to have to make the decision in the end.

She brought up that it was bad timing for me to bring this up, and I agreed with her (fogged). She is traveling all week and she has some extremely high stress meetings that she has to run, probably one of the most important weeks of her entire career. And like I said before she is top 5% and has over 600 employees under her. So, I ended the conversation with the comment that she should do the kegels in the meantime and we will look at surgery as a possible option down the road, but if we find the kegels Are working and then we'll go with that.

TLDR wife's pussy has become two babies for me to cum. Ultimately we have decided that she should do kegels and we can look into surgery as an option in the future also. There was some tearing during the child birth which may limit the effectiveness of kegels. I don't know all the answers though, I'm not a doctor. And I'm sure it's different on a case-by-case basis. I do believe that the surgery is and can be effective, and from what I've read it does have a high rate of success.