Okay please one thing.

stonepimpletilists · 2016-11-20T20:32:08+00:00

Thanks mom, fuck this post

Aaren_Augustine · 2016-11-20T07:29:47+00:00

Your over use of buzz words is a dead giveaway. Tone it down and you'll be good to go.

You're going for the long con and I can't wait to see what you do next.

Pinelero · 2016-11-20T12:12:13+00:00

Giving advice to a guy third person through his "wife" is just asinine. MRP is for building men, per our mission statement, not about enabling controlling bitches. Anyone who gives advice to her about manipulating or changing him is another fool falling into her frame. We can only give advice to a poster about themselves. I don't have any issue giving advice to women about changing herself, but this particular OP has not even requested this type of advice, which is telling. What good advice could we give a woman that an RPW forum couldn't do better and with more insight into the female condition? Maybe the one exception was the previous lesbian poster who wanted advice about her female SO.

BluepillProfessor · 2016-11-20T04:23:19+00:00

Women get butthurt when accused of trolling so I would not be surprised if this is real. No idea if why Stoney deleted your post. Apparently the story was duplicated on another account several months ago which is purportedly explained below?

Anyway...if you have tried surrendering to your husband and he still refuses to step up, and you still need him to step up, then the only thing we have is to let the natural consequences follow. Here is what will happen. You will give up, lose attraction, stop fucking him, and he will, in perhaps many years, stumble onto the Red Pill, wake up, and be the man you need. Or you will cheat way before then and get the domination and excitement you need.

I want a chance to be the one with emotions but generally only his are allowed to be expressed. That's our pattern, and I DO want to change it.

A woman wants to change her man? Color me shocked. Have you considered that nagging voice in your head driving you to seek security and more and more resources and a better and different man is counterproductive in the long run to a good relationship?

You can change you. You can change your reactions to him. You can't change him. You can stop considering his emotions. You can show your emotions more and beg and demand him to acknowledge them. He probably has no idea because mommy has done such a good job coddling his emotions.

SexistFlyingPig · 2016-11-20T16:53:35+00:00

We are not here for your feelz. We are here for men. If you send a man here, we'll talk to him. Your posts are not welcome here.

screechhater · 2016-11-20T03:46:11+00:00

How about a copy of "Mating in Captivity"

Or better yet **TA DA !

Next him him if he doesn't wake up, or have him read this

dbthrowaway1016929 · 2016-11-20T02:10:14+00:00

This is my previous account. Those who accused me of being a troll will note similarity of voice and general facts. My creating new accounts is due to opsec related to our drugs use. You can see that it seemed to work for a while. But still felt the need to buy sidebar books. I've probably read more hours of theory here than most posters in order to understand what might make me happy. I'm a seeker and throw myself into the fray in order to understand. Always been my way.

I'm happy. He's happy on general. He's just not seeming happy at me. Though he would deny it. I want more. So I'm pulling him along.

Here's MDMA. Be happy. One year later : here's red pill books. Be happy.

Next resort? He still thinks I need to initiate 50 50. I need him to understand that I am available but tired of running our sex life alongside everything else.

Feel free to scroll through my sad interactions on deadbedrooms.

How can I tell him that if he thinks sex with me is boring that it's his turn to make it fun? Like, for good?

Sepean · 2016-11-20T07:46:09+00:00

it seems you old post got deleted after I wrote this there:

The options are (several may apply):

he's not reading the books
he doesn't believe what they say
he is too low testosterone or something in his personality prevents him from implementing the stuff; the masculine identity just isn't there.
the incentive structure is wrong (ie. you're rewarding him for still doing the wrong things). Most of us got here because our wives were nagging, frigid bitches.
you're not submitting properly. Starfish sex and visible disappointment etc. makes him not feel like a man so his masculine identity isn't emerging. This is the RPW model and frankly I think it is stupid. Submitting to a non-masculine man sounds like a ridiculous way to fix anything, and on top I don't think women are able to do this properly.

This whole "I don't want him to read this and that" tells me you're trying to build a better a beta instead of setting him free. My guess is you're also shit testing his attempts at becoming alpha, and since this whole thing is running in your frame he backs down.

The simple truth is that you're not going to like his transformation. You're going to like some aspects of the end result but others you'll hate, but you're wired to hate the process of your little beta manning up.

So get him in here. He needs the locker room. He needs us to tell him that he has to ignore what you say and power through your shit tests instead of going at it with your "this book is good except for the part about women and don't read that book"-guidance.

Title	Okay please one thing.
Author	onherown
Upvotes	0
Comments	31
Date	November 20, 2016 2:05 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/5dvwdh/okay_please_one_thing/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askMRP/okay-please-one-thing.206852 https://theredarchive.com/post/206852

Comments