Had a good night last night surprisingly, wife seems to be all but over some shit that went down Sunday (played it off completely different than I normally would, got a better result).

Laid down in bed to watch TV last night and after a few minute of watching TV I grabbed her and pulled her to me, she resisted. I told her "come here, let me hold you" which in most cases is how I've initiated in the past, other times I just want to have her next to me.

Her immediate response on resisting was "are you sure you're not just trying to have sex? The last 2 nights I've just wanted to snuggle and you ended up wanting sex both nights" Without hesitation I immediately responded "Baby, no matter what we're doing I'm always thinking about fucking your brains out, but I just wanted to hold you for a minute."

Obviously, my intention was not to hold her at all, I wanted to get her close so I could start to get some. In this situation though, she threw her guard up before I could even get there, and since we've fooled around the past 2 nights (last night was vanilla as fuck, almost positive she faked an orgasm) I figured fucking with her was the best response.

Thoughts? Also, is this even considered a shit test?