Which activities in a game type situation would you like to do with your SO to help increase intimacy?

RedPurpleWhite · 2017-02-18T01:51:46+00:00

I have no idea what you're asking so I'm just going to answer as I understand it.

When I'm playing a game with my SO, I don't hold back. I bring my A game, so my SO can either beat me fair and square or admire my skill... usually the former lol.

HappyWifeLifeX · 2017-02-18T00:44:54+00:00

what? I think you're going to have to tell us a story or something....

laurenkk · 2017-02-18T05:34:33+00:00

For us it's things like Pictionary, where you're leading your partner to the answer.

After 17 years we have so much history and inside jokes to weave into drawings or phrases without using the catch words.

That always makes me feel our strong bond.

Edit: word

Jayms · 2017-02-20T13:13:41+00:00

My hubby and I play board games pretty frequently and it's a great opportunity for flirting and fun. Usually I wear something flirty, we'll grab a snack or drink, and then start playing. I'll flirt with him, pretend to distract him by flashing skin if he's winning, joke with him if he dealt me a good hand, and compliment his skills if he's winning. If I'm winning or getting ahead, I'll playfully tease him and he'll usually come over and grab or tickle me playfully back. I always try my best and never let him win because that's disrespectful. That being said, I'm not focused on winning but on having fun together.

It's also fun to play cooperative games and be a team and then you can compliment each other and focus on being an awesome team. When you win you can high-five and give other physical affirmations. I also look at it as an opportunity to practice following. For example, in video games, I'll let him go first and ask him what he wants me to do as we make a plan to defeat a level. It lets him take the lead and shows that I respect him and am willing to follow his instructions.

laurenkk · 2017-02-18T05:35:46+00:00

Very interesting question by the way.

Are you working on a project of some sort?

whistling_dixie · 2017-02-18T03:09:40+00:00

Really don't know what you're looking for here. I don't consider my relationship a game, and I don't play games with it. We have intimacy because we love each other and we have a deep appreciation for each other. Our intimacy can't be a competition because we're both extremely competitive people and that would just backfire.

Title	Which activities in a game type situation would you like to do with your SO to help increase intimacy?
Author	oohlaloveshop
Upvotes	6
Comments	13
Date	February 17, 2017 11:19 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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