Hiring a hooker to get out of slump? Am I crazy?

reedrichardsstretch · 2014-09-18T19:54:51+00:00

You're problem is still being in a scarcity, not abundance mindset. Also, if you're time is really that valuable, why are you allowing women to waste it? As soon as they show signs of being wasteful of your time, next them and move on. ONLY make time for the ones who'll meet you one on one and close to your place. Don't spend forever talking to them at a bar and drinking with them. Early in the interaction, tell them you want to show them something (anything, really) in your place and that you have wine or whatever up there. Mix them a good drink / pour them a glass and escalate. If you're as well to do as you say you are, then you should have no problem taking them to your place and they should be impressed. Send them home after saying you have work you have to finish for an important client. Doesn't matter if it's true. Call them...or not a couple of days later if you want to. Wash, rinse, repeat.

kanaduhisfruityeh · 2014-09-18T18:39:27+00:00

If you can afford them, why not? You can bang hookers and chase "regular" bee-atches at the same time.

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[deleted] · 2014-09-19T00:05:35+00:00

Why are you on Reddit right now and not fucking two beautiful Colombian hookers? Seriously?

jroseland · 2014-09-18T19:53:25+00:00

Hit it dog, hit it! Find one that you click with and make it a semi-regular thing. They love the stable hard working guys as clients. As long as they are not crazy in the head, they can be very professional and make you feel really good.

MGTOW_player · 2014-09-18T21:53:11+00:00

I think if I were making the same money in the US whlie living in a third-world country I would hit up prostitutes a lot more regularly than here.

By the time you satiate your insecure ego by "gaming" several dozen prime women, hopefully you will realize the futility in further excessive PUA timewasting. The skills are good to have in life, though.

You have access to cheap, beautiful prostitutes in a legally-friendly setting. Why not bang them and pull the one-night-stand whenever it falls in your lap occasionally?

And I have no problems using prostitutes (strippers/escorts) as Dread Game for any "normal girls" I am dating. I've told girls straight up I've fucked whores for drugs/cash and, in my experience, it has only helped my SMV as I truly realize pussy for what it is worth: NOT MUCH AT ALL.

If you have the means, try and parlay seeing prostitutes into naturally attracting more "free" (HAH!) girls. Even if it doesn't work, fuck it! You're banging top-shelf quality for cheap anyway.

Disregard any sort of shaming you get. It's all jealousy.

GigglesAndFood · 2014-09-18T20:43:39+00:00

Any good reason not to do this?

No. Just dont marry. Colombian hookers are HOT!

sagginpus · 2014-09-18T21:16:23+00:00

Dude I'll share my experience... I was in a slump too, after a bad breakup and long dry spell I was not in a good place. I went to Amsterdam and banged a couple of 8-9/10s in the red light district over Christmas holidays. I came back home and found my confidence renewed, and I immediately hooked up with a hot Russian on New Year's Eve, and another chick the week after. Sometimes you just gotta get your nut off, I think... It really picked me up and got me straight again. That being said, I felt a lot more comfortable browsing the red light district than I would picking up a random escort or craigslist hooker. IMO, if you are gonna do it, fly to Vegas or the Dam and do it right. Good luck.

Edit: didn't read your post very well, and I see you are in Colombia. Sounds like you know where to go, and Colombian girls are fucking hot. I say go for it.

MaxPower6 · 2014-09-18T19:07:31+00:00

Unless you are an alpha (sounds like you are not based on your description of your situation) you will most likely get duty sex and will regret it afterwards

Red_King_Rising · 2014-09-19T00:12:00+00:00

I went three years without getting laid. I found a regular girl and saw her for 3 months twice a month until she moved. Honestly it was nice. She was good looking, a little country but sweet. She did everything I wanted and always had a good attitude. I always tipped her a little extra and I never had any problems with her "boyfriend". At first I felt bad, like I was using her, or that I was less of a man by paying for sex but after three years my confidence was shot with women. She didn't do too much fake moaning or blowing smoke up my ass and the few times she came she told me. She never judged me and always had a smile for me. I could see how it could get addicting. But at the end of the day she was there for the money and I never forgot that.

[deleted] · 2014-09-19T01:22:32+00:00

I never have, and I never wanted to until recently. Now I think I'd like to do it one day for the experience, but I don't want to do it if it's ever during a dry spell. I want to look at it like I'm enjoying a luxury, not paying a bill because I'm struggling.

I think the hooker thing would be a good learning experience, especially coming at it with a TRP mindset. It's a very old and strongly ingrained part of human nature, and I want to understand why.

watersign · 2014-09-19T03:24:34+00:00

What's the big deal? You can pay a hooker for sex or you can take a girl out on a date and gamble on something ...anything happening at all. There is no difference. BTw, you'd be surprised that normal girls from middle to upper-class and even wealthy backgrounds do stints as quasi-prostitues. Feminists hate prostitutes because it takes away their control

PlebDestroyer · 2014-09-19T04:32:02+00:00

No blow? Yes, you're crazy.

oldredder · 2014-09-19T05:25:17+00:00

Interacting with women is a great way to physically decode - learn it by reflex, not by theory - their ways into your own habits to benefit. Cost: find a way to make it cheaper.

sex: if sex is the goal, sometimes, rather than the game, learning, adapting, then ya, hookers. If that's what scratches the itch, costs less & gives you more time to devote to your health & income then I don't really see the downside.

WindUpTerrapin · 2014-09-19T00:08:58+00:00

I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks Colombian women are incredibly flaky.

mordanus · 2014-09-18T19:46:35+00:00

When you bag a woman using your skills or smv then it validates you. You feel like a man because you have conquered and risen above where you used to be. When you pay for it none of that happens. You feel the biological release of sex but none of the mental gratification that comes from it done the right way.

If you do decide to pay for it then don't ever tell the future women of your life that you did that. It shows to them low value because you couldn't earn pussy the normal way.

monsieurhire2 · 2014-09-18T19:19:51+00:00

"I'm probably coming across as desperate since it's been a while. The frustration is getting to the point that I just don't enjoy hanging out with women."

Probably. You should NEVER communicate that you give two shits one way or another. You need to have fun doing what you're doing and not be outcome dependent. Nothing is more unattractive than a guy who comes across as "needing" to have sex. He's the male equivalent of the female gold-digger who "needs" to have money spent on her. And it plays into every attractive woman's deepest insecurity: that the guy ONLY likes her for her looks.

. . . .

"Finding quality girls here who respect your time is really difficult. Girls are mostly just into party guys, who do drugs and drink all night at the shitty bars here, being a decent hardworking guy with a good career gets you nowhere."

You are doing a shit job qualifying women, my friend. If you go to places where those kinds of women hang out, you're going to skew your findings in a bad way. You can easily spot those kinds of women, however: they dress likes whores and wear a lot of make-up to cover up the increasingly bad skin they get from too much partying.

Some of the younger ones can pass, however. IMO, as soon as you find out a girl is into the party scene, you should insta-next her. This will actually make you more attractive to her, then you can use her as social proof. You must always communicate to these women that they aren't good enough for you . . . because they're not. They've allowed themselves to become pieces of dogshit who are slaves to their worst impulses who are statistically unlikely to ever change, but will only get worse and worse. They should be treated with casual bemusement masking an inner contempt. They should be used as chess pieces and played off against one another.

And if a girl isn't interesting in being your social proof, then she has absolutely no use at all. In order to get some social proof, it can be helpful to pose as a willing beta orbiter . . . so long as you spend little to no money on her. The last part is key: spend no money on social proof. A good example would be organizing activities that you want to do anyway, and getting girls to come along, or giving a girl a ride, if it's not out of your way. Buying meals would be a counter-example.

Anyway, I would steer clear of the hookers.

SQQQ · 2014-09-18T19:52:12+00:00

what difference does it make between banging CC sluts and prostitutes?

jroseland · 2014-09-18T18:30:16+00:00

No hooker is worth the feeling of accomplishing it on your own.

[deleted] · 2014-09-18T18:04:46+00:00

After you sleep with one then you still will be in a slump. It won't fix the issues that you're having. You were talking about how your time is valuable and that you've been wasting it but if you spend time and money on a hooker then you're doing yourself wrong.

deep_anal_thrusts · 2014-09-18T18:42:05+00:00

The best reason to not do it is that it's likely to be very disappointing. It's likely to be bland, mechanical sex.

Title	Hiring a hooker to get out of slump? Am I crazy?
Author	jroseland
Upvotes	25
Comments	70
Date	September 18, 2014 5:59 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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