Why Does it Always Feel Like Men are Coercing Me to Have Sex..

Scaredycat2019 · 2020-09-15T22:57:44+00:00

Because most of them are. Put some boundaries up. Stop allowing that behavior.

jesza09 · 2020-09-15T23:12:56+00:00

Because they are.

Salt_Satisfaction · 2020-09-15T23:13:51+00:00

Because you're not turned on from whatever they are doing or not doing. So it feels like it's for their benefit. You agree to it because you're used to that underwhelming sex, or always expect sex to be better but while you're having sex or after, you don't feel right.

This is what we get when men online normalise to other men that "sex is more important for men because it means more to us/it's our main source of emotional intimacy/reassurance in a relationship". No you're just a tool, there are so many gestures you could do/receive that would mean so much more than awkward, underwhelming sex.

NessaMonsta17 · 2020-09-16T01:13:03+00:00

This is because they are. Simple all men want sex, whether they want a relationship too is another story. And we need to stop allowing men to cop a feel. Like wtf. That shit is not cool. Like I didn't give you the green lite to grope me. Ew.

And when they do, we NEED TO SMACK THEM, THERE HAND ETC.

We need to be less, nervous laugh, hinty and sweet in our rejections and no's. We need to be more like " Hey jerk face?! What do you think you are doing?!"

THEY think because ur smiling in your rejection that it isn't true. So make it loud and clear. " Don't touch me like that, I barely know you, and already u are making me uncomfortable. So cut that out. Can we focus on actual getting to know each other and enjoying this date for real? Don't u think that would be a lot more fun?" and then ask some follow up questions about his life. Orrrrr just say he made u feel super uncomfortable by doing (label exact gesture) and I'm leaving now.

Hhjjuuy · 2020-09-16T01:44:55+00:00

Because they don't want sex they just want to make you do something you don't want to do. So if you consent enthusiastically they continue to push and push things in strange ways because they don't want sex, they want you to be unhappy.

Title	Why Does it Always Feel Like Men are Coercing Me to Have Sex..
Author	DippedinBronze
Upvotes	62
Comments	9
Date	September 15, 2020 4:39 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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