Spinning Plates

SteelSharpensSteel · 2019-02-12T12:32:20+00:00

Removed for not following the posting guidelines. Belongs in AskMRP.

ChumphreyGoHard · 2019-02-12T02:05:04+00:00

You just swallowed the pill, it’s going to take time for that 1000 ft rope to pull tight. Dread takes time. Keep increasing SMV. Take aggression out at iron temple. You are in the anger phase. Resentment comes from entitlement. You still think she owes you something but it’s all earned.

BlindingTwilight · 2019-02-12T01:20:49+00:00

I would never personally tolerate a dead bedroom situation but I get it that guys want to do the right thing and hold out to try and fix their marriage. I recommend you go and bang some strange on the side, you have nothing but a terrible marriage to lose.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2019-02-12T02:08:53+00:00

Your wife still sees you as Beta - because she knows you- that’s why. 1000 foot rope concept. Look it up. It’s going to take time for her to believe this is the Realz you.

We tolerate it because we realize that it wasn’t her fault, it was ours. She thought she was getting Chad when she married you, but instead, got a submissive weak fat Beta instead. Resentment comes from being angry & hurt. She wasn’t fucking you because she wasn’t attracted to you. It’s not her fault. It was yours.

If you have kids, your wife has value, and you want it to work out, give her time to cum around. 9 years? Fuck. It’s going to take at least a year to not see you as Beta.

“got shot down 14 times in the last month”

Stop this weak shit. You reek of desperation. Put in the work and stop complaining. You now see the code in the matrix. Have fun with it to practice.

Have fun being some new girls alpha in the meantime.

Persaeus · 2019-02-12T02:32:35+00:00

If you ain’t fucking her she ain’t a plate.

Taipanshimshon · 2019-02-12T02:06:06+00:00

Help me out here bro.

You’re an 8 and your wife won’t fuck you ...

Surely those two girls you “opened “ fucked you?

Eights get laid right ?

Or nah?

fuckmrp · 2019-02-12T05:11:09+00:00

Bro those bitches at the bar don’t know you. You could look like a greek god but if you’re home shitting the bed 3x a week the pussy is going to dry up.

I’d be willing to bet you’re not an 8, the bitches at the bar were beer goggle 6s, your frame sucks and you’re not leading at home. How do I know... cause thats who gets starfish sex.

She’s not, not fucking you. She’s giving you what you deserve. So who do you resent now?

red-sfpplus · 2019-02-12T02:15:26+00:00

DB for 9 years means no sex.

Starfish every 2-3 weeks means you are a pussy.

Put in the work or GTFO.

SuperCrazy07 · 2019-02-12T03:08:17+00:00

Take her to the bar where the girls were buying you drinks and flirting.

Nothing will get wifey’s attention faster than when a cute girl who already knows your name comes up and starts flirting and buying you drinks.

Tips

The girl has to initiate the conversation.
You need to get good at statements that don’t address her worries. Answer at most TWO questions like these below for any one interaction:

Is she always like that? “Yeah, she sure is clingy.”

Why does she talk to you? “I dunno, she just likes hanging out.”

Does she know you’re married? “Of course, sweetie. I always tell girls when they talk to me. I don’t want them to get the wrong idea. She just laughed and said she doesn’t care.”

What does she see in you? “Babe! I don’t know or care. I like to go to the bar and hang out with everyone, so I don’t pay much attention. I do think that the one you’re worked up about today kept rambling about how she’s attracted to bigger guys with muscles. Seriously, who gives a shit.”

Are you flirting? “Of course not. I just sit there and the girls ask questions. I mean you know how I like to joke around and banter. It harmless.”

After two responses move on to grunts, ignoring, etc.

HornsOfApathy · 2019-02-12T06:44:23+00:00

Take one of those plates to the edge but dont cross the line. Go home. Initiate.

Come back and tell us what happens when you're rejected again and if you gave a fuck.

batfish55 · 2019-02-12T11:28:16+00:00

Once you lose frame in an LTR, it's tremendously difficult to get it back.

FereallyRed · 2019-02-12T12:14:35+00:00

You're going Rambo, Captain...

You don't have her perceived nor actual experience yet to take back the wheel... but you think you do. You've changed, right?

Well, in her head you haven't. Not one bit. Two months in? A sneeze.

Read the Captain Rambo link, it includes the 1000 foot rope concept you're missing.

Plus, the idea that you're doing this for you, right? NOT THE WIFE. Resentment is a tell that you're still way too early in your journey to owning your shit.

Title	Spinning Plates
Author	AlphaBlackWolfOne
Upvotes	6
Comments	24
Date	February 12, 2019 1:15 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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