Is it weird if a girl I've been going on dates with for the past 6 weeks is still logging into her online dating profile almost daily?

Archwinger · 2017-03-19T02:41:10+00:00

It's perfectly normal for 99 percent of women. You're fucking other girls, too, right?

If not, you should fix that.

Oh, and don't make this one a girlfriend. She's probably out getting laid tonight.

[deleted] · 2017-03-19T07:20:12+00:00

This is Female Hypergamy at work. The only reason why this disturbs you is that you haven't been doing the same.

Just because you went on a date you shouldn't stop looking for new women. The best way to have an abundance mentality is to actually have abundance.

SeamusAwl · 2017-03-19T02:14:53+00:00

If you are looking for an LTR, then nope. If you are just spinning plates. Who cares.

ProfessorSlapaho · 2017-03-19T02:14:03+00:00

not a great sign, but girls also like attention and validation and options and shit. my experience when they're into you, they're into U.

oldredder · 2017-03-19T13:11:09+00:00

It's completely normal - women love to keep options and to cheat and you should expect this.

Sensei_Hensei · 2017-03-19T11:45:15+00:00

If you both were to claim exclusivity today she still would look at her dating profile for the attention and to see if she can get something better. Like someone mentioned her hypergamy is running like a well oiled machine.

Stop focusing and using all of your firepower on her. Spin some plates.

SexySmexxy · 2017-03-19T08:32:54+00:00

How do you know and why do you care?

saladon · 2017-03-19T11:47:08+00:00

I'm going to assume you met each other through the said dating app. Context is important here because under other circumstances that'd have to be an immediate next.

You honestly can't blame her for basing her worthless life off of the app, as for women it's not too different from everyday shit like shopping. You haven't given her a good enough reason for her to suddenly stop using it. It was through the use of the app that she met a guy like you, wasn't it?

She will only stop her daily "shopping" when she realizes she cant afford to buy something high value again, and she can trust the item she chose will suit her needs.

mcr00sterdota · 2017-03-19T10:54:29+00:00

Yeah I wouldn't LTR this girl, she's definitely got lots of orbiters/alpha's at bay ready to fuck her when she wants to. Plate her or move on.

thenarrrowpath · 2017-03-19T15:58:37+00:00

You should be doing the same

IVIaskerade · 2017-03-19T18:04:08+00:00

If you're not fucking her already, you should move on.

Kalidane · 2017-03-20T02:45:24+00:00

Are you asking if it's weird that a girl likes getting attention?

Is the first girl you've interacted with?

inspiredshane · 2017-03-19T07:10:01+00:00

Tell her funny stories about the other girls that are hitting on you. Then start talking about the slutty things you'd like her to do for you later.

Title	Is it weird if a girl I've been going on dates with for the past 6 weeks is still logging into her online dating profile almost daily?
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Date	March 19, 2017 2:08 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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