Hey,

I’m 24 years old, my LTR is 22 and we started going out 3 months ago.

She was a virgin, I was her first kiss. (I don’t live in the US, many 20+ girls had 0-2 boyfriends)

Anyway, things get sexual every time we see each other. She initiates it many times and so do I.

PIV is still problematic, we tried a few times but it’s very painful for her, she’s a tiny girl and very tight.

My problem is, she doesn’t want to try and give a blowjob, she says it “doesn’t feel good” (she tried once for like 20 seconds) and she’s not comfortable with that.

I explain to her that it’s natural but she has to try it, I do go down on her simply because I like it, but last night when I asked her to try again and she didn’t it started to piss me off.

I just pushed her away from me (she was giving a HJ) and was a bit distant till I left her place.

What can I do? I don’t want to keep asking for that and make it “special”, the way I see it BJ’s should be a regular thing.

Should I become more distant next time she declines? Should I stop going down on her?

She’s very submissive in all of the other relationship aspects.