What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?

resnine · 2019-03-24T23:54:14+00:00

I've heard him say this in his podcast (sadly only 12 episodes). I don't understand what this means? Says American women and Brazilian women...

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If I had to guess, it's due to socioeconomic reasons.

It's the middle class that is most affected by feminization. Wealthy people are far more conservative, and rear their children in the same ways. Poor people definitely do not give a fuck about feminism because you'll get killed if you do.

I'm generalizing but black people are typically more common in low-income neighbourhoods, with many living in poverty. In those types of living conditions, the animalistic nature of humans is at the forefront, which means men are men, and women are women because it's do or die.

Throw in cultural forces that reinforce stereotypes such as rap music, gang violence, fetishization of black males in porn, media portrayals of black men and women, and feminism just doesn't fit into that type of narrative. The contrast is so great that it's seen as an outright lie, a fabrication. There's no room for it.

Having said this, individual experiences vary. Black guys still need to get their balls dropped like any other guy, which mostly happens after getting rolled by some bitch. Even Tupac went through the transition.

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Alot of black men dont deal with black women because they don't want to deal with them either due to the attitude, etc. So they go to other non black women because they treat them alot better and theres a status symbol attached to it for some.

For asian women it's similar. For asians it's seen as a status symbol to date a white person because they're seen as the ruling class. Also it doesnt help that many asian men dont know game because our parents generation never had to worry about it. Theres other things but basically it makes asian men low value and undesirable.

So if youre a asian woman why would you go with a asian guy who you see as low value when you could go with anything else.

Interestingly enough theres a trend of asian men going with black women because both are seen as the bottom of the attraction scale to everyone else.

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Women love shoes. There was an article I saw that had eye-tracking software track where men and women looked in the first 3 seconds of looking at an image. All eyes looked at her face and her boobs. All of the women's eyes ALSO looked at her shoes. None of the guy's eyes did.

Women think that men like shoes. They justify buying a $300+ pair of shoes because they think that guys will find them hot or notice them and think that the woman is high status and important because she's wearing them. There are a number of things wrong with this thinking.

#1: Guys don't really care about the status of a woman.
#2: Guys won't notice the shoes.
#3: Guys find innocence attractive, not sophistication.

It's women that find sophistication attractive.
It's women that find status attractive.
It's women that pay attention to shoes.

So they're selling what women are buying. They're not selling what guys are buying.

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All those career-obsessed "dominant" women you see who scoff at traditionally female conventions, move aggressively and speak bluntly?

In fairness, though, you'll never see a group of women who switch on instantly for a dominant man as quickly as alleged alpha females. The bitch in HR, I promise, can't last a week with a guy unless he uses her hair as a bridle to control her during sex.

I remember this one hardass HR bitch -- and I mean she looked fucking mean AF in her online dating profiles -- I took on a dancing date years ago. She talked a good game about being a queen bitch who always took charge. About that . . . you'd have thought she was the nicest school girl you ever met by the end of a night being led dancing. (Pro tip: dancing is a great first date to accurately measure submissiveness.)

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I think what he means is women spot 'love to get sex' easily and women assume we always want sex so it seems dishonest and weak even if your feels are real.

Where as women who want sex might come off as sluts to us so they may feign love to get sex which we will believe is honest usually because what woman would just want sex??? Haha. I jest, but it definitely exists.

I think what the beta male offers is a kind of life support. It shows people she's found someone for outward validation, he provides constant validation and will listen to her problems, he will take photos of her for her IG, etc. Now if an orbiter does this things he is often that considered friendzone zone.

It isn't malicious really it's just a natural set of supply and demand, a trade of goods really and we do it too.

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Is much more than an idea. Look at the seduction forum, full of stories of beta males not being sexual with their teen, inexperienced girlfriends, and how always the girl goes away to a fuckboy.

Then do the experiment of feeling horny and looking at women meanwhile walking on sidewalk. Feel horny meanwhile talking to a girl, and imagine, -believe it-, that you are making her horny. Imagine that you are making her wet. You will see how women strongly react to it. It makes pickup so easy.

Women crave sex. Romance is blue pill, beta male bullshit. Women don't want relationships until you make them squirt in bed.

As soon as you start giving relationship signals to a hot girl, she loses interest and is scared away.

Women don't love first and then give sex. They first get sex, and then love.

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Women don't care about "the intentions behind the sex", because women sexual behavior is controlled by feelings.

Feelings are irrational, animal. His purpose is to shut down the rational mind.

To pick up a girl you just make her horny. After his vagina starts getting wet, she loses control.

Seducing a woman is about taking control of her, by taking control of her feelings. There is nothing more arousing for a woman that feeling that you are controlling her by her emotions.

Attraction is not a choice. If you only want to"fulfill your fantasies with her body", that only makes her hornier.

But for that you have to be perfectly comfortable with sex. If you are uncomfortable, you body language communicates it, and she gets turned off. Is not because of your intentions, but your insecurity. If you are confident, it doesn't matter what you want, because you are in control, and that's what they want.

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Title	What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?
Author	resnine
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Comments	99
Date	March 24, 2019 11:54 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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