FWB called me a nice guy

[deleted] · 2019-03-27T02:48:02+00:00

If you have been fucking her for a year, it is fine.

DatingTank · 2019-03-27T03:09:06+00:00

It's perfect. She has the feeling that you're a tough guy, who reveals his soft side, but only to her. Optimal.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-03-27T04:11:32+00:00

After sex the other night she told me that when she first met me she thought I was an asshole

Notice that she started fucking you when she thought you were an asshole.

Willkuer_ · 2019-03-27T03:10:29+00:00

The category is "things her female imperative brain needs to tell herself to sleep at night"

NeuroBoss31 · 2019-03-27T02:54:39+00:00

Generally I try and balance out comfort with alpha, about 70% alpha to 30% comfort.

That's what she's referring to. You're fine here.

chazthundergut · 2019-03-27T03:32:33+00:00

I don't care if she calls me a nice guy, so long as she swallows my nut

mrpoopistan · 2019-03-27T04:39:33+00:00

It depends on just how much assholery you've been laying on.

At maximum assholery, there's a good chance she's trying to defuse some of it. Women come at me pretty thick with, "You have kind eyes." (Which is a useless data point because gorillas have kind eyes, and they'll rip your arm out of the fuckin socket.)

My advice is to let the remark go uncommented. There isn't much upside in engaging with it. If you play like a badass, you lose because it looks like puffery. If you concede the point, you risk losing a long-run framing battle. Better to let it float off into space.

As for the doing part, keep hitting it good.

DrizzlyShrimp36 · 2019-03-27T13:39:35+00:00

I think our perception of the words 'nice guy' has been skewed by the internet. When we hear 'nice guy' we think of beta ass dudes who put women on pedestals and expect sex for it.

You're getting sex already. For her, 'nice guy' probably means 'not a piece of shit'. I ain't bad at all. TRP doesn't teach you to be a piece of shit.

latinasonly · 2019-03-27T20:44:38+00:00

people can call me an asshole , they can call me a nice guy, either way I know what I am - a good , strong person.

frictiondick · 2019-03-27T04:54:20+00:00

You are fucking her so who cares. Do you see a relationship with this women? It shouldn't matter she is just your fuck buddy.

SauliusTRP · 2019-03-27T06:32:35+00:00

If it works, don’t fix it. Do what you do now.

Bedtimeshine · 2019-03-27T12:11:42+00:00

If you have abundance mentality and fuck her brains out.... you’re not that type of “nice guy” and you should continue to treat women how you treat them. Muscular physique helps too.

pinaplejoose · 2019-03-27T17:00:31+00:00

tbh it kinda blows me that youd think this means youve done something wrong. Is your perception of yourself rlly a dick fuckbuddy when this girl sees you as a nice person; shes 's known you for a year, I feel like she sees you for what you are by now. I deny game being an embedded personifcation of "the asshole who fucks" if youre able to reach a point of yourself being fully expressive of the kind of person you are, and people are still drawn to you then that is, to me, the highest achievement in getting girls.

Title	FWB called me a nice guy
Author	humzy
Upvotes	11
Comments	23
Date	March 27, 2019 2:46 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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