Are any of you RedPillers not into the bar/club scene? If so, what do you dislike about it and where do you prowl mostly then?

RedBigMan · 2014-10-05T13:56:06+00:00

Bar/Club is crap. It basically artificially inflates women's SMV to the max and everything involved is tilted far in their favor.

You would have to be a fool to go to a club looking to find women to bang. Remember there are women literally everywhere you go unless you go to like a gay bar or mason meeting or something like that. There are opportunities everywhere to talk and flirt with women you just need to seize them.

I think going to stores is a good place to start. You can tell a lot about a woman by where she shops.

I mean there is a difference in demographic from people shopping at Walmart vs those shopping at say Costco.

GayLubeOil · 2014-10-05T20:27:18+00:00

I try to avoid the bar and club scene because the combination of alcohol and late nights is bad for gains. I posted a douchy flexing pic and did quite well with online dating.

wall-of-meth · 2014-10-05T10:28:46+00:00

Clubs aren't for me, still from time to time, when there's a good DJ, I will go there with my close buddies and enjoy the music.

What I usually am in for: Private or house parties.

It's always a smooth evening. If you have a good cirlce of friends, there will be quality people at those parties. You can back yourself up with social proof and status, when you know a lot of people you can also let preselection do work for you.

Then, the biggest plus is the atmosphere. No one is primarily in there to hook up, yet everyone would be in for it. So it's an evening full of very relaxed interactions and when you run game, girls will just wait and see where it leads.

scarletspider3 · 2014-10-05T14:13:57+00:00

I used to go to the bar alot cause I had a great strategy for it. I used to work as a FedEx delivery guy and I used to encounter literally hundreds of receptionist (women) and I used to practice running game on them. So after work I used to go to the bar in the area. It was usually filled with woman from the route that I already built attraction with and their friends. It was the ulitmate strategy cause I had the social proof before I even walked it. Now as an older guy I really don't go anymore cause I'm more focused on getting my money right.

Neo-ReactionaryHarry · 2014-10-05T17:08:52+00:00

Day Game > Bar/Club Game. I like libraries, bookstores, coffee shops, grocery stores, outdoor public events(check your city), and even in dancing. Club game is far too chaotic and usually a sausage fest and Bar game is mediocre at best.

Mightaswellmakeone · 2014-10-05T11:12:36+00:00

I did the club thing up until last year. I think most guys will tell you only certain type of women go there. I disagree with this point. I've met pretty much every type of woman there.

I stopped because of the specific hours, timing, and energy required to get women there.

Now I find women through various social gatherings or hobbies. I also have lived in large cities while making this change. I think that helps if you're trying to make things sex based within two meetings.

TheOneTrueMagnet · 2014-10-05T14:59:49+00:00

Go to a dance studio and start taking classes. They are always looking for males since it is mostly females. There is no downside.

It is a clam fest.
You are forced to socially and physically interact with the women there.
You learn a skill that will you meet and interact with women outside the class.
The people in these classes will often go to dance halls outside of class. These women will know you and want to dance with you. Preselection anyone?
Dancing sets you apart from other men. Most don't to do it because they are nervous and too scared to learn. You can use it to show that you are dominant, strong, and skilled.

If you are in the southern U.S., I would suggest starting with country dancing. Otherwise(or next), learn salsa and its relatives. From there you can learn swing dancing to really set yourself apart.

themasterof · 2014-10-05T14:42:31+00:00

I go to clubs/bars because its a good place to meet women, no other reason. The club/bar in itself is not fun, except for the alcohol and women. Flirting with women is the only thing that makes it fun, and I feel like its more acceptable to flirt a lot in the bar/club scene, so thats where I go.

TVTestPattern · 2014-10-05T15:16:14+00:00

Live music venues... works especially well if you know the performers.

If you are a performer it's a cakewalk.

Check out the local open mic events.

TheRealMewt · 2014-10-05T15:20:05+00:00

I still like going to bars and clubs, but I go there specifically for the music. Rarely do I flirt with girls there because I'm looking for more of a LTR and I don't think anyone trusts a club girl to be long term material these days.

watersign · 2014-10-05T14:00:05+00:00

yes, not into it at all since im short. i used to prowl online (pof, etc) but have stopped. managed to bang a few girls off it but realized i was wasting alot of time

SirClassyAnon · 2014-10-05T19:03:01+00:00

I have had most of my success at a Magic the Gathering tournaments. Once I flirted with the female pizza delivery person. The restraining order expires in 37 days, at which point I shall finally woo her.

[deleted] · 2014-10-05T15:13:48+00:00

I've always hated the club scene because it's overcrowded and people act like complete jackasses when they get drunk. It's not my idea of fun. Ill go to a bar at a restaurant though with some friends because it's smaller and much easier to conversate. I like to keep it simple, nothing over the top.

Transmigratory · 2014-10-05T16:24:55+00:00

They're not bad. Though I think it could be an age thing too. As you get older, you're less likely to want to go into the club.

Being in my early 20s, clubs are a viable option for me. When am reaching my 30s, I expect to be less of a viable option.

Tengujin · 2014-10-05T16:26:54+00:00

I can tell you as someone who night club DJed for a couple years in different countries, clubs and bars are about one thing. The whole industry is about selling alcohol, nothing else matters. I should also remind everyone that modern game or "Mystery" era game was ALL about night clubs or bars. Mystery even admitted that most(80%+ i think) of his pulls were from clubs in his book. When I found that out I started taking him with a grain of salt. Then, the difference between "night game" and "day game" was born.

Outdoor festivals or other activities outside. 5ks are almost always a majority of women and they are interested in physical activity. Museums are always a good place too because it gives you license for fantasy. Activities are necessary if you don't live in a big city because otherwise day game is difficult and risky. You won't see anyone in my local grocery worth picking up on unless you want to hang out in there for days at a time(or you have a thing for unkempt moms)

throwyawayee · 2014-10-05T17:31:46+00:00

I go hiking and jogging also swimming and biking opposed to going to bars

derkonigistnackt · 2014-10-05T18:22:56+00:00

I live in a big city so I go to meetups (karaoke, tandem, video club) and couch surfer events. Yeah, bars/clubs are shit.

the_red_scimitar · 2014-10-05T21:04:26+00:00

These days, almost all new women I meet are from online dating sites. A very, very tiny percentage are through social contacts in real life. I have never even tried picking up a random woman at bars. Prior to online, it was always through social contacts, a couple time it was girls I was in a band with.

[deleted] · 2014-10-05T23:25:12+00:00

Pretty much the same things you dislike... I come from a culture where having a good time means friends getting together at someone's house and socializing in the true sense of the word (interacting, conversation, sharing foods together, drinking together without blacking out, etc). Having experienced that, clubs/bars seem utterly pointless. Unless there's free pool, then I'm in.

[deleted] · 2014-10-05T15:24:34+00:00

I dislike picking up chicks at bars, but I'll still go out with friends for fun. I don't really have anything in common with the types of girls I met in clubs/bars. Most of them are airheads who despite being sexy, aren't worth the time and effort. Most of them are pretty used up too and suffering severe psychological disorders.

I know there's cities/venues where the demographic is not like this, but it is in my town.

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BedlamStatesman · 2014-10-05T17:29:24+00:00

I'm already in an LTR with a cute, redheaded bookworm, but even if I weren't in an LTR, I wouldn;t be frequenting the bar scene. My "type" of woman is a bit different than your typical bar skank or club slut. As for the bars and clubs themselves, if I want to drink booze that I pay a multiple-times markup for, I'll go home and water down some scotch with tap-water (A travesty, I know, but it fits the scenario for our purposes). At least then I can drink my watered-down booze without having to deal with the gagging smell of menthol smokes, a urine-soaked bathroom, and drunken douchebags looking to turn everything into a fight.

As for the clubs, I prefer to get my dance scene at the raves. Folks at the clubs around here are WAY uptight and too highly strung. At least at the raves, everyone's there to have a good time. The general attitude seems to be "Well, I didn't get laid, but at least I had fun." Club girls can be bitches, and that's never appealed to me, personally. If I want a slutty girl with Daddy-issues to grind on my junk, who'll turn around and be a major bitch two seconds later, I'll pay some girl at a gentleman's club to do it.

Personal prowling grounds here would be the Library, Bookstores, and Athletic Fields...maybe a public park, occassionally.

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mega_beta · 2014-10-05T16:34:39+00:00

Not into chicks who drink alcohol. I think alcohol is disgusting, so bars/clubs are out for me. And no, I'm not Muslim.

I'm all about some Netherlands-style parties though. Qlimax, Thunderdome, etc.

[deleted] · 2014-10-05T17:42:41+00:00

I still pick up women are bars/clubs on occasion. It's fun to watch the big boys give me the eye when I take home a beautiful lady to bang. Other than that, I hate clubs/bars. Overpriced, too loud to hear, and most of the people there are contrived and not funny. I usually day game at meetups, coffee shops, lake walks, and at stores.

kempff · 2014-10-05T22:34:29+00:00

Me neither. I see drunk people doing and saying really stupid things, and I know so do I when I drink, so I only go out occasionally, and only with friends I trust.

Everyone else has already listed all of the things I don't like about the scene, but I just want to emphasize the sheer emptiness and stupidity of the environment. It's especially palpable if you are the only sober person in the room. What a drag.

Title	Are any of you RedPillers not into the bar/club scene? If so, what do you dislike about it and where do you prowl mostly then?
Author	bisexie
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Date	October 5, 2014 8:43 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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