How do you guys do it?

ttann71 · 2019-04-04T19:07:14+00:00

You’re using tinder and bumble that shit is pointless not the type of woman you want to attract

FereallyRed · 2019-04-04T20:00:23+00:00

You're not displaying enough frame and game to make plates. That's your problem.

Why don't they become plates? Do you fuck them well first date? Do you display boyfriend/beta/needy behavior that disqualifies you from fuckboy status?

You're doing something wrong.

Rapp5601 · 2019-04-05T03:39:42+00:00

The good news is you're well ahead of 90 percent or so of dudes already. Add some degree of confidence, frame and social skills, and you'll be cruising in pussy most likely.

The bad news is that you seem like you're scared shitless of social interaction with girls irl, which is a simple but difficult thing to fix because you have to deal with your nervous system freaking out the first several approaches. It's not fun initially, but it's worth it.

DiggerClam · 2019-04-05T04:02:43+00:00

Go the fuck outside and talk to women who you want to fuck!!

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-04-05T07:05:34+00:00

It's been said. Work on your frame and approach in real life.

In all my 37 years on this planet, I've seen maybe 3 dudes cold approach. Hell, I can't even remember 3.

That's ridiculous when you consider we're sexual creatures. Shame, fear, social conditioning has stopped us doing what men do.

Be the different. The most important principles for me are IDGAF/outcome independence and PRIZE.

It takes a little bit to become calibrated, but when you do it's fun. Have fun.

I like just walking past a girl and tapping her on the shoulder. I follow up with 'Oh damn, sorry to interrupt you. I'm ***, what's your name?' 'I noticed you and want to find out if you're cool'.

Then tease her on something I notice about her. Ask what her favourite thing is, what she does for fun. I make some observations and little teases based on the answers.

I sum her up - 'so, you got that good girl/badgirl/princess/nerdy whatever vibe. You're blah blah, and like feeling blah blah'.

'I thought for sure you'd be too shy/innocent/bratty whatever. But you're ok,so I'm going to take your number'.

Pretty simple. You'll find a frame and approach that you're comfortable with. What you say is less important than attitude. Be non needy above all

TheStumblingWolf · 2019-04-04T20:44:55+00:00

You probably need better social skills. If you think Tinder is a good source for human interaction I don't think you get out much.

campa56la · 2019-04-05T06:56:53+00:00

Go up to random girls you don’t know and hit on them. Be rude, be an asshole, do what you gotta do to get laid.

thatbadrogue2 · 2019-04-05T07:06:16+00:00

if you put 6'3" hardbody in your bio i'm pretty sure you win. put a shirtless pic in one of the scroll photos, make it clear what you want. Girl matches, "you, fuck me." works like 10% of the time, but if you do it with 100 girls you fucked 10 with no work involved.

PossiblyBreathing · 2019-04-05T06:15:53+00:00

Trick with Tinder is get their number within the first few messages. 1 number a week isn't enough as girls can be flaky and you have another 200 guys matched with girls at a 6/7. Then you plan the date - after this try not to get in the habit of constantly messaging as it may impact whether the date actually happens or not. Just agree a place and time and leave it at that, if she wants to know more about you then let her initiate. Quite easy to set up a few dates in a week especially with those stats you got.

CaptDeadlift · 2019-04-05T10:37:13+00:00

If you were as good looking as you portray you would be getting easy dates.

I am nowhere near your stats ( 5'10 , atm 14-15% bf @ 80-82kg , decent face with amazing beard though -some love it some hate it-) and still managed to snatch decent amount of dates ( sometimes could pull 3-4 women a week other times none).

If you are not lying then maybe your face is fucked since that plays a big role to girls as well.

Or maybe pussy is way overpriced in your area.

Either way approach them during the day or at night if you just want to meet sloots.

Hambone_Malone · 2019-04-05T14:34:56+00:00

Move to southern California. The abundance there is astonishing.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-04-04T23:13:36+00:00

Your tinder profile must be trash. PM me and I'll help u

tavar34 · 2019-04-04T23:13:13+00:00

Troll.

Title	How do you guys do it?
Author	Rapp5601
Upvotes	22
Comments	38
Date	April 4, 2019 7:04 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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