HERE is the Redditlog of the comments thus far. In a nutshell, she dated this guy whom she says is "one of the sweetest guys I've met and has a great sense of humor" and a "great personality". But she's not attracted to him, because "he's overweight and I've tried to look past it but I don't foresee that happening". She admits that if he were rich, she would "definitely stay". She fucked him anyway, because she was drunk.
I suspect that she'll delete the thread soon, because she's getting angry comments from guys who aren't happy about her pulling back the curtain on her real thoughts. I'm don't have much commentary to add, but it's interesting how clear she is about what she wants—i.e., looks and money—and how the guy's personality and how nice he is to her means absolutely nothing. In fact, the winning reply so far says:
Telling him that you don't find him attractive would be shittier than lying to him. Tell him you think he's boring or just don't like his personality.
To which she replies:
Finally someone understands. Everyone is telling me to be honest but telling him I'm not attracted to him sounds so harsh. He knows I don't think he's boring; he knows I like his personality.
So, instead of telling him the truth, he'll hear that his personality—which he very obviously cares a lot about—sucks. Therefore, he'll work extra hard on his personality with the next girl. After all, that's what girls want, right?
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