Hamster almost self destructs trying to undertand why men treat her differently now that she's married

Kronouranos · 2013-07-02T00:20:58+00:00

It's funny how many people(females) can't accept the fact that guys really don't want to be friends with taken women. To them, it's "hypocritical" for a man to not care about another man's relationship status, but do care about a woman's.

To be completely honest, I have never met a woman, single or not, that I have wanted to hang out 1 on 1 with because of their friendship. There are a specific few who I enjoy talking with and have great personalities, but none that I could see myself 1 on 1 with them and enjoying it as much as I would any of my male friends. The reasons why I hang out with women are either to get laid, or social proof/networking.

If a man says he is attracted to a girl because of her personality, he is lying. Absolutely no man I know has acquired an erection from a non-sexual conversation from a woman alone. I've asked.

anra · 2013-07-01T18:40:33+00:00

this is basically a thread full of women complaining about not getting male attention, and a bunch of dudes asking what the fuck they expected.

you are not entitled to male attention.

anra · 2013-07-01T18:52:43+00:00

She's bitching that no one flirts with her anymore and that she gets called out when she tries to be flirty.

Worse than that when said guy was sober later he apologized for being flirty...to my husband.

How dare someone respect her husband!!!!/s

Long story short - I am no longer treated like an individual - some people have told me that that's just how this is, which frustrates me a lot.

She wants people to give her the perks of being single (male attention) while she gets the perks of being married (security) from her husband.

Edit: here is the twox cross post in an attempt for her to get more people on her side

pirateundies · 2013-07-01T19:38:04+00:00

Woman gets married and doesn't want to admit that men no longer have incentive to pretend she's more interesting than she is.

Meanwhile, her husband has been permanently given value to other women as well as a sense of competition. Ladies always want what's just out of reach.

johnsmith66 · 2013-07-01T20:35:37+00:00

This again boils down to women not having or understanding Honour. They don't understand that another man has "put a ring on it" and between honourable men, that means you leave her the fuck alone. She can't grasp that the fact that she's married comes with a perceived threat from the husband in the eyes of other males.

All she sees is how this affects her, even when she does consider the idea that the guy doesn't want to piss the husband off (because it's against "the code"), she gets even more annoyed that it's her apparently being shunned again.

I wonder how she would react to another (much more attractive) woman getting very flirty with her husband? The claws would be out, no doubt.

James_Coook · 2013-07-01T20:10:12+00:00

Call me crazy but I don't think this marriage is going to last very long. Guys are treating her different...well of course...they won't be hitting on her...but still she expects guys to kiss her ass. Smh.

schoolsterz · 2013-07-01T20:43:06+00:00

TL;DR "Where's all my free attention at?! I need men to approach me and tell me how amazing I am! I am amazing, right? Uh oh, now i'm unhaaaaaaaapy, time for a divorce!"

GayLubeOil · 2013-07-03T00:03:49+00:00

The upside of this post is that even if she does not fully comprehend the sanctity of marriage the other men in her story do and refuse to flirt with her.

ThisPlaceIsScary · 2013-07-01T18:42:58+00:00

Shrykull was doing a pretty good job but he was just getting hammered by those who were unwilling to look at the facts.

MockingDead · 2013-07-01T19:47:05+00:00

Women are so hung up on friendship, but they use beta friendsho\ips to get stuff. The fuck?

"IT'S NOT FRIENDSHIP IF ALL YOU WANT IS SEX, PLEASE MOVE MY COUCH, FRIEND!"

W-Z-R · 2013-07-02T08:48:32+00:00

She's married, that's why men are not flirting with her, because most people understand that you don't pursue people who are married.

rebuildingMyself · 2013-07-01T21:12:45+00:00

He should not have married her. She does not seem to want to be married at all.

I cringed when I read the word "monogamish."

Traditional wedding vows have a sentence that says something like, "you have become one in the flesh" or something creepy sounding that implies unity. She should not be surprised that her husband and herself are now treated as one entity. It is as though this woman expected marriage to be less binding than a corporate merger, but I guess that it is technically less binding in the 21st century West.

If people want to behave like bonobos they should stay in the forest.

noblepaladin · 2013-07-01T19:42:49+00:00

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iamme2 · 2013-07-01T22:28:57+00:00

We're no longer omniumamore and omniumamore's husband, now we're a unit.

What the fuck is the concept and purpose of a marriage then to this woman?

What kind of man listens to his wife talk about not being treated like she's single despite her best efforts to behave like she's single and carries on like this isn't the utmost disrespect? Why do her friends have the balls to put her in her place and not him? What kind of dumb fuck agrees to a "monogomish" marriage?

These fucking clowns marrying these broads get on my nerves sometimes.

noizef · 2013-07-02T05:28:34+00:00

now that she's gotten these responses, how long do you think it will be until she tells her husband "i'm not happy"?

2013-07-01T19:41:02+00:00

what a whiny cunt

2013-07-02T05:24:35+00:00

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angelothewizard · 2013-07-01T18:03:33+00:00

I hope I got the flair right on this one. Pretty interesting discussion, in the sense she is highly protective of her blind spot.

GushyWetWet15 · 2013-07-02T12:54:00+00:00

she sounds like an absolute cunt, she just exemplifies why the fuck i will never get married

Title	Hamster almost self destructs trying to undertand why men treat her differently now that she's married
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Date	July 1, 2013 6:02 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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