The base, animalistic nature of women's sexuality. Xpost from truereddit

boshin-goshin · 2013-06-02T20:37:13+00:00

It's great how the author and interviewer struggle to explain some of his hypotheses.

Hypergamy as a concept is so scary that it can't even be contemplated.

socal83 · 2013-06-02T19:15:09+00:00

i've always thought that in order to WANT to have a guy stick his dick in you and pump out a load........ you have to be a little more on the animalistic / raw side than the dude doing it.

hence, gay guys are the same way. i mean chicks start bleeding when they're like TWELVE, guys are pretty much clueless in the animalism department until mid 20s (on AVERAGE)

father_figa · 2013-06-02T18:08:40+00:00

They always portrait this as a fear of female sexuality when in fact I find it to be fear or confusion of unrestrained sexuality of both males and females. The fears did not blossom from the pleasure associated with sex, they came from the pain associated with it. What do you do with the babies? What do you do with the diseases? What do I do with these feelings of jealously? How do I deal with being abandoned by my own possesion?

Can I abandon this woman and her babies and do it to others til I die or physically give out? No. Society has placed a restraint on me. Can women have sex anyway time or place that she would like? No. Society has put a restraint on her.

If more men could get out of the concept of coupling many of us would care far less about the sex lives of our own prey. While this article might be news to unenlightend men, it should come as no suprised to men who have extensive dealings with women. They are sexual beings who simply operation on a different strategy and are restricted in different ways than men. While less restriction is better for all of us, there must be a cultural way to deal with the painful aspects of sex before both sexes are truly free and available to fully experience it without restraint. This will not happen in our lifetimes.

neilmcc · 2013-06-03T00:27:04+00:00

a really powerful engine for female desires is being desired, is being wanted

Wanted by alphas, sure.

Nutz76 · 2013-06-03T15:14:17+00:00

Believe it or not, /r/sex had some interesting comments/insights on the subject. Wasn't nearly as circle-jerky as I expected.

http://np.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1fiubn/the_truth_about_female_desire_its_base/

_Molon_Labe_ · 2013-06-04T14:47:12+00:00

No shit.

yankeetiger · 2013-06-02T20:50:19+00:00

I won't speak on how the anatomy of female sexuality is less than adequately acknowledged, you can open up an anatomy and physiology book or a student nurses med surg book and see for yourself how its sort of glossed over.

Of much more interest to me, the cultural dynamic of human sexual behavior and its impications for dating and society in general, this is definitely an area of study I love to read up on. That subjective bias is inescapable and its especially true.

We as people don't give nearly enough credance to the fact that a lot of the time, we don't know why we do the things we do, ask a women why she did 'x' , she will say it was because of 'y' even though we suspect it was 'z', how do you disentangle the claimed reasoning from experimentally verifiable reasoning?

"why'd you leave him?" , "I got bored" <- sounds legitimate, i've gone through the same, but...bored with what? his mind? her body? , it sounds so plausible on the outside and it feels like a decent justification for our behavior so why dig deeper?

"why did you get back with that chick man, she has a kid!" , "I thought i'd give her a chance, see if we have chemistry and then i'll cross that bridge when I get there" <- a perfectly valid response to defend yourself from society, also a great cover up for when I just wanted to bang a milf and she wasn't down for no strings attached, ethical? no of course not, unless we factor in that the label 'boyfriend' maybe just eases things on her side (think slut shaming) and we still treat each other like fuck buddies.

cooledcannon · 2013-06-03T03:00:57+00:00

female eros is much better made for monogamy than the male libido, is scarcely more than a fairy tale.

this isnt true. women like monogamy significantly more than men do generally

tidux · 2013-06-04T03:03:08+00:00

there are different levels of desire and of fantasy, and you know, fantasy and sexual assault in one form or another are pretty common, but does that mean that any of us want to go out and be sexually assaulted? No, it doesn’t.

Uh, I thought that there were women who did that?

Title	The base, animalistic nature of women's sexuality. Xpost from truereddit
Author	fuckingdanzig
Upvotes	25
Comments	38
Date	June 2, 2013 5:50 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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