I really find this impossible to do. Whenever I've tried to hold frame, women just don't want to meet me. They have a bunch of other options at their disposal, they don't need to waste their time on me. This happens regardless of what the woman looks like - even if she's fat or butt ugly. I can "play things cool" or make it be on my terms, but they just don't care when they've got at least 20 other guys competing for their attention.

I don't know whether it's because of my looks. I'm around average looks. Not fat, not really skinny, but not exactly model material either.

Any red pill advice on this?