After 5 months of reading TRP - this is basically the TL:DR of figuring out women.

The only real "communication" that works in stimulating sex in a LTR is action-communication (i.e. you doing something and not talking).

Her sexual attraction to you is simply based on her perception of you.

So what make's up her perception at a high level?

  • Physical perception - are you ripped / do you have muscles? do you look like a guy who you wouldn't want to mess with? would you win a fight / would people want to avoid getting into a fight with you because they'd think they lose? can you carry heavy items? would her friends get tingles if they saw a picture of you with your top off at the beach?

  • Body language perception - do you walk with a straight back and eyes up? do you give off the vibe that you're not a guy to be fucked with.

  • Fashion perception - are you well dressed / fitted? or do you look like a comical PUA with a fucking top hat on?

  • Social perception - are you dominant in groups situations? do other people respect you? are you 'well liked'? do other men respect you?

  • Individual frame / self-perception - do you stick to your values and beliefs? do disagree with people openly? are you on a mission in life and are you focused on achieving your goals? do you think your time is valuable? Do you let other people waste your time? Will you simply go do something else if someone is 10 minutes late to a meeting and hasn't notified you beforehand? do you fail her shit tests? do you apologise to make her 'feel happy' again? does she subconsciously know you dont really need her in your life? Does she disrespect you? Does she baby talk you? How do you react when she disrespects you? Do you confront her when she disrespects you? Are you this guy?

If you master the above 5 --> subconsciously she will want to fuck you as much as possible.

If you fail at the above 5 --> subconsciously she will not want to fuck you at all. She will look to 'branch-swing' and she will often have a 'head-ache' and won't want to have sex. She will also want to go out with her friends for "drinks" and come back at midnight :)

What the above proves:

  • Women are only "committed to you" as long as they perceive you be a masculine man who satisfies all elements of her perception.

  • Relationship investment/equity is a myth - you need to be mastering all 5 elements of perceptions to keep a LTR healthy and sexually active.

  • Relationship counselling / talking - doesn't fucking work - its impossible. The only thing that determines her sexual attraction to you is the actions you carry out to enhance your masculine perception.

  • THE MOST RISKY STRATEGY in a LTR is to BE A BETA / have a poor perception. Nice guy? Shitty physique? Putting the pussy on a pedestal? Serving her? Trying to please her? By doing all these things YOU ARE DESTROYING YOUR OWN MASCULINE PERCEPTION. Yeah Honey i will pick up the kids? I will clean the kitchens and toilets for you :) I treat you so well my princess :) If you are a beta in a LTR her hundred thousand year evolutionary tingles will kick in to go find an alpha cock.