I'm not well endowed. I am not complaining, I accept it for what it is, but how I make best use of my dick?

boywonder200 · 2019-04-30T06:43:08+00:00

Sitting right at around 5.5 inches fully erect here. Also have some performance anxiety issues that cause me to probably sit at around an 80% boner even on Cialis, so I imagine my girth and length are even smaller most of the time. Have never had issues getting girls off.

First things first - every girl is different. Some girls like getting fingered blasted with three fingers, other girls hate even one finger inside them while loving you slamming their cervix with your dick. Some girls will come easily from oral, others you'll sit there with your tongue about to fall off and she just can't get over the edge. I'd say fingering a girl and eating her out are great foreplay, but don't put all your cards in these decks trying to get her to orgasm. Frankly, from experience, girls greatly prefer penetration over oral sex and fingering. But like I said, every girl is different. You usually gotta sleep with a girl a couple times to figure out what makes her tick. Don't sweat it if you're not making every ONS cum buckets on your first try.

How to make the most of your dick? My bread and butter positions are:

Missionary. It just has so much variability in angling her hips, speed, applying pressure to her clit, adjusting body contact, etc. I'd say most girls can cum from missionary alone. This doesn't mean put her into missionary and start going to pound town. Try different angles and see how she reacts to each.
Spooning. It might just be my dicks angle (it really isn't that curved but my GF says she notices a slight curve towards me), but I always get girls telling me "Wow I have never had my pussy hit in that way" when fucking in the spooning position. The angle is great for stimulating the clit and it is pretty much a sideways doggy and I love the feeling of a girls ass bouncing against me. You can either push her face away and get a better angle, or pull her close to make things more intimate, makeout, etc.
Prone bone. Idk why, but girls just fucking love it. Tires me out fast but girls enjoy it a lot. Can easily switch to spooning to save energy.
If a girl really enjoys deeper penetration, lay her on her side. Have her put her top leg in the seated position (like an upside down L) and keep her other leg straight. Straddle the straight leg and get right up against her pussy for maximum penetration. Feels great too and you can even grab titties.
Reverse cowgirl except have the chick lean back and put her arms down. I've noticed with my dick, while her being on top feels great, I rarely make girls cum while they are on top unless they know what they are doing and take control. But this position hits the vagina at just the right angle.

Keep in mind a lot of girls have either never came from sex or have cum very few times. I've found that if a girl doesn't know how to get herself off, you likely won't be able to get her off. To rap up, you say you want to keep women coming back for more. Well, making them cum is a big part of it. But also, you gotta be exciting. Don't depend heavily on the bedroom for making a girl want to spend time with you, unless you're a sex god trying to just roll through as much pussy as you want. But then you wouldn't be on reddit asking for advice. Being fun, exciting, and dominating not only play a role in getting a girl to be attracted to you and wanting to be with you again, but also play a role in making her cum. It ain't all about ramming your dick inside her.

rpsheepdog · 2019-04-29T19:18:11+00:00

Dog just put her legs behind her head and you'll be fine

FixYourselfFirst · 2019-04-29T19:27:46+00:00

A. You can fuck a fatty from behind, her belly doesn't get in the way.

B. Sex God Method

chazthundergut · 2019-04-30T00:13:36+00:00

Vaginas are like ovens; preheat for best results

PincheeWhey · 2019-04-30T00:10:30+00:00

I'm 5-5.5 fully erect and manage to please a 250+lbs woman (don't judge) pretty well. Some things i find that help: make sure to eat your healthy fats and enough of them to keep your libido in check. Don't jerk it or watch porn to avoid soft dick, you want to give her that extra centimeter. Eat her out and use your hands, make her squirt and cum a few times before you even think about inserting your pp. Once she's turned on pretty well, she'll be begging for that dick. What I find is she likes it from the back because she says she can feel me in there much better, says it's her fave position. Another position is to put one of her legs on the wall (my bed is next to the wall) or over your shoulder. Both legs over your shoulder work well as well. Talk dirty if she's into it. It's more about mental stimulation for them than anything else.

[deleted] · 2019-04-29T20:25:48+00:00

If she's the only girl u seein right now,

3 steps,

No touching your dick until you see her = dick will be rock hard for hb7 and the only thing on your mind is putting that dick in that pussy (no more extra what if's/thinking)
Fuck the SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT out of her and show her how much you can cum
Win.

Slut_Slayer9000 · 2019-04-30T00:55:38+00:00

Don't have your problem but here is my general sex advice regardless of dick size: Learn how to finger girls, aka learn where the clit and g spots are and have some rhythm+ dirty talk (you gotta stimulate their mind). If she isn't wet before you put your dick in you ain't doing something right.

Then when you are fucking them its not the kind of dick you have but how you use your dick unless you have a micropenis. In missionary either put a pillow underneath her or put both your arms under her lower back to prop her up then go to town, this allows you go deeper and hit her g spot. Or if you are standing up but top of her you can hold her legs slighty up around her thighs/knees. Depending on the girl doggy man not be your friend, if she got a big ass it will be hard for you to go as deep, but you can still make it work. Push her down, choke her from behind, hold her arms back, make her spread her ass cheeks so your dick can go deeper, you get the picture. Missionary will be your friend though as its the easiest position to hit the g spot. But most importantly you need to be fucking her into submission, be dominate, don't show any signs of insecurity what so ever!!! Sex should be a workout for a man, if its not you didn't do your job which is to dick her the fuck down. Once you give woman good dick + make her cum she will do anything for you and the halo effect starts. Any negative about you can be rationalized into a positive, thats why laying good pipe is so important. The bigger the dick the less you have to work the smaller your dick the more you gotta put out.

light-----------dark · 2019-04-30T03:02:54+00:00

sex is emotional, energetic, and psychological as much as it is physical.

[deleted] · 2019-04-29T20:14:27+00:00

You are looking at for a map

Greaterbird · 2019-04-30T00:47:03+00:00

If your dick is small, use your hands. No dick is bigger than a fist and a forearm.

Jussie_Mullet · 2019-04-30T01:09:37+00:00

Google this if you want. Average penne size is 5.1 inches. Therefore you are above average.

The techniques described by other trpers above all work well.

Ravage her like a demon.

She can't tell how long it is. (Unless you jam her cervix == pain == good). Girth is Better.

Take her with your Desire.

Cholo4Trump · 2019-04-30T07:21:07+00:00

Its all about SMV. Dick size is not a factor unless its wayyy too big or a literal micropenis.

At 5 inches, you are basically average. at worst, slightly slightly below.

YourShadowScholar · 2019-04-30T08:54:47+00:00

Can you put your penis into girls' assholes? Or will it only fit into their ears?

trp12369 · 2019-05-01T17:06:32+00:00

Jesus christ thats alot of replies.

jerrymcguiver · 2019-04-30T00:02:09+00:00

Unzips pants, here we go again.

I gained 2 inches from 7" to 9" over 8 months of hanging weight from a penis hanging device called a BIB hanger. I spent 3 hours a night every night. Device is $100.

Should you settle for what you have? I had stick arms a year ago. Now i throw my morbidly obese wife around. Should i have accepted my weak ass arms for what they were?

If you are fine with 5" thats cool. If you are fine with average when you could be more that's cool.

Sonny_Luna · 2019-04-30T02:37:08+00:00

Women will look right past it if you're confident. I have a big ole hammer and it didn't make much difference for me when I wasn't as confident.

I know a guy who admits to having a small dick and he always has women hung up on him after he hooks up with them.

So you're probably good.

vandaalen · 2019-04-29T21:57:17+00:00

suck it

Title	I'm not well endowed. I am not complaining, I accept it for what it is, but how I make best use of my dick?
Author	trp12369
Upvotes	27
Comments	40
Date	April 29, 2019 7:15 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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