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My Red Pill Discovery 2

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May 4, 2019
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My Red pill discovery Part 2

I first swallowed the pill in November of 2017. I posted to Married Red Pill and got my teeth kicked in for what was a much needed discovery. Some of you may remember me. if not, you may look up my history for my posts. The last time I post here was about 9 months ago. I am still working on my 3rd and 4th round of reading the sidebar and I still learn new and interesting intergender psychological facts that are everybit what the genetic principle of human interactions derive from. So, here I am with another field report almost one and a half years after discovery.

Stats: 41yrs old

6’ - 210 - 15-18%BF

Bench - 255 5 sets of 6

Squats - 300 3 sets of 6 on good days. If My knee is bothering me then its still at 280

Curls - 155 4 sets of 8

Leg press 335 2 sets of 5

Lats - 100 4 sets of 8

Work out 3 times a week targeting different muscle groups. Cardio varys mountain biking and trail running.

My stats have improved since my last post and this seems to be what works for me and my schedule.

While I was spinning plates 9 months ago for quite some time I decided that I was ready to give it a go at a relationship. I met a woman online, we met for some fun and drinks afterwards. At first I wasn't really sure if I was ready for it but as the night went on the more fun I was having. I decided to just take my time with this woman (She’s 10 years younger then me). She was married young, had 2 kids the same age as my daughter. So, with my knowledge I have gained from this sub I had learned some questions to ask that would give me some intel as to where her head was at, what she was looking for, was she chasing beta bucks cause that wasn't me. All of her answers were very common, left abusive relationship, didn't divorce rape him and doesn't collect child support since they have 50/50 custody. She asks about me and I tell her about my whole messy divorce, what happen, and what I'm looking for in a relationship.

On our second date, The day was amazing, we both got a little buzzed and she decided to stay over. Needless to say I plowed her about 4 times that night. Amazing in bed. We get to talking about her pasts and swapping party stories. Her past reads just like the sidebar. Needless to say so do her actions. I can spot shit tests a mile away, responds positively to stern discipline, and comes for comfort when she is put in her place.

Most corrective posts here talk about fucking her like you slut. I couldn't agree with this more. The more often and the harder I plow her the more submissive she is the next day and on her best behavior.

Fast forward till present month, shes still fucking me like im a bronco, I laid out a plan for a potential future together with a timeline and goals both personally and financially. All things that I failed to do in my previous marriage. I didn't lead, I was needy, a beta faggot needing validation, and covert contracts out the ass until this sub kick my face in.

One day I tell her i’m paying $80 for my daughter to go to cheerleading. She loses her mind. Yelling at me as to why would I do that when I pay child support. I tell her because I want to do that so I know she will be able to go. She gets up and says “I can't hear anymore about this” and goes upstairs.

Pre-red pill I would have chased behind DEERing and apologizing. Instead, I go sit on the couch with my daughter and we laugh at a comedy show shes watching. About 45 mins goes by and she comes downstairs. I ask her if she is ready to talk about this and she look gives me an look and says we will.

I stood up, walk towards the kitchen and tell her NOW! I sat at our table we have bench seating. I tell her to sit beside me. I ask her (calmly) to start explaining her point of view. Immediately she raises her voice. I get up and start to walk in the living room. She asks where I am going? I turn around and smile, tell her when she is ready to talk to me like an adult i'll be happy to finish the discussion. She calmed down and asks me to come back. I sit down with her and she says why when I pay my ex money would I also pay for the cheerleading. She can pay out of the child support.

I told her the this is my decision to ensure that my daughter had the ability to try something she wants to do. I also state, I don't rely on anyone for my own happiness and I can't rely on anyone to make my daughter happy but me. I also state I can't say 100% that my ex would even pay for it possibly disappointing my daughter not enabling her to further her physical and social experience.

I also tell her in the future if she is unhappy with a decision I make she needs to calmly discuss it with me because I will not tolerate yelling and arguing in a relationship. I explained I did it before and that is my boundary I will not let be crossed. Her eyes teared up, she came over and sat on my lap and apologized for raising her voice. She appreciated my approach to handling her outburst. That night I got everything and anything I wanted including anal for her first time.

I know this is a long post and for anyone reading this just starting to unplug, it works. This is psychology at its best, it should be taught in schools. But with 90% of teachers female it would never fly. I can say, i’m still miles away from where I want to be, but i'm that much further from where I was. Its amazing the kind of relationship you can have when you understand how its supposed to be.

Be yourself, Do you, Lift, Read, STFU, and lead your life first then your woman. P.S. Fuck her like a slut she wants to be!!! Cause if you don't, someone will. It's just your turn. Thanks MRP


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Title My Red Pill Discovery 2
Author rhugg215
Upvotes 7
Comments 27
Date 04 May 2019 07:31 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]The_LitzRed Beret15 points16 points  (5 children) | Copy

She was pissed of because you are spending resources on your kid that she wants allocated to her kids.

The whole show was just resource management, including the buttfuck.

Tread carefully with this one, she is testing the boundaries for a reason.

You enforced a boundary which is a good thing, but younare missing the reason why she was pissed off.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

She was pissed of because you are spending resources on your kid that she wants allocated to her kids. The whole show was just resource management, including the buttfuck.

Very Well put ^

but

You enforced a boundary

I don’t think he enforced any boundary. He failed there because he DEER’d

[–]BostonBrakeJob1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

I don’t think he enforced any boundary. He failed there because he DEER’d

He didn't enforce one, no. But I think he did good at setting one.

The way I see it, he refused the conversation until it was civil and then used this as an example of how he intends to support his child. This wasn't just financial support either, he ensured his kid the experience as well. I also see it as her prodding to see if he's shelling out money to the ex because he's a faggot pushover, which he made clear (IMO) that isn't the case.

How do you see this as DEER'ing? Asking for a different perspective, not to argue.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

How do you see this as DEER'ing? Asking for a different perspective, not to argue.

He shouldn’t explain anything beyond I’m going to do it. End of conversation. Actually, he shouldn’t even do that. He should just do it.

This (below) is all DEERing since he feels a need to defend, explain, excuse, and rationalize where he doesn’t owe any explanation. If you still don’t get it, then you have much unplugging to do...

I told her the this is my decision to ensure that my daughter had the ability to try something she wants to do. I also state, I don't rely on anyone for my own happiness and I can't rely on anyone to make my daughter happy but me. I also state I can't say 100% that my ex would even pay for it possibly disappointing my daughter not enabling her to further her physical and social experience. I also tell her in the future if she is unhappy with a decision I make she needs to calmly discuss it with me because I will not tolerate yelling and arguing in a relationship. I explained I did it before and that is my boundary I will not let be crossed. Her eyes teared up, she came over and sat on my lap and apologized for raising her voice. She appreciated my approach to handling her outburst.

[–]BostonBrakeJob0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I don't disagree with ya man, it's always an option to just say "this is how it is" and be done with it....if you(we) so choose.

I also think there are other options. That could be because I have more unplugging to do, or it could just be the meeting of two different views.

Edit: Well damn...just seen he deleted the post. You were probably right then, came from neediness and pissy he didn't get his gold star here at MRP lol

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

came from neediness and pissy he didn't get his gold star here at MRP lol

It was glaring

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando29 points30 points  (8 children) | Copy

Why are you laying out financial plans for a future with a plate you met a few months ago?

I give up.

[–]KoolAidMan79807 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

A fool and his money are soon parted...

[–]thatboyjeff4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Thanks MRP!

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy

MRP. Building better betas since 2012.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ouch.

[–]SkimTheDross12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your Discovery is that your LTR/plate has to be calmed down and sitting at the table before you DEER?

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy

I just had a proper read through your post history. I actually remember reading your FR from 10 months ago when you posted it. You seemed to have your shit together.. you broke up with your ex-wife and went spinning plates. When she copped on to this, she threw herself at you and you kicked her to the kerb. Like I said, it looked like you had your shit together. You certainly seemed to be walking the walk.

So what the fuck happened?

Less than 2 years later, you're back under the thumb of another woman - who, like your ex-wife, also has kids - and you're acting like a beta who just learned how to stand up to a woman, then back peddling like a DEERing motherfucker coz you don't know any better.

So what the fuck happened?

Nothing happened. You never swallowed the pill at all. You licked it. You liked the taste, but you never swallowed it. You picked up the lingo, you can speak it, but you don't really understand it. You met a woman and on the first date spill out your fucking life story to her.

She tells you that she's divorced and has kids from an abusive ex husband. But she fucks good. So what do you do? Do you plate her like you should? Fuck no. She rides you like a cowgirl, so you ignore the red flags and bump her up to LTR status. The you lay out your future plans for her. All in less than 9 months of meeting her.

You're a fucking retard. You went from one beta relationship with a woman with kids to another beta relationship with another woman with kids and learned nothing.

Oh, you had a slight hiatus in the middle with a few plates and thought you were alpha. Then you come back here and proclaim shit like..

for anyone reading this just starting to unplug, it works. This is psychology at its best, it should be taught in schools

Yes it does work. Of course it does. But it hasn't worked for you. It's not that MRP has failed you though. It's simply that you haven't learned anything from either MRP or your previous mistakes because all you are doing is repeating the same shit that led you here in the first place. You have failed yourself my friend. Well played.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

You'd think the lessons of Steve McQueen would be understood by now.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Painful shit to read through that trainwreck.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Oh man, these smack-downs make my day haha

[–]TitsWobbleAwayTwice16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

“My money, my daughter, my decision. End of story. Capish?”

How long does that take?

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Spoiler alert: that will be his Field Report in 2021.

[–]coinbaserep4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Why would you even tell her your paying the 80 dollars? Sounds like you were either asking permission or seeking validation

You should have paid the 80 dollars because that’s what you wanted to do and then stfu

Then after she was mad you encouraged her to talk about her fee fees and your decision even further.

There was nothing to discuss

[–]testy682 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

He was getting permission to spend "their" money.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

First, you talk about how the old you would DEER, and then the rest of the post is describing you DEERing. It’s fucking cringeworthy

Why does she have any opinion on your finances so early. Huge red flag. Also, you already have ONEitis, but I’m not even going into that

[–]BarracudaRP2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This entire post is about "her", why is that?

[–]Captain_pants40 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The problem with DEERing is that once you start they will always fish for it.

Ideally, your $80 would have been better spent on her or her kids from her perspective.

Way too early in the relationship for any of this shit. Red flag. Bounce



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