My Red pill discovery Part 2
I first swallowed the pill in November of 2017. I posted to Married Red Pill and got my teeth kicked in for what was a much needed discovery. Some of you may remember me. if not, you may look up my history for my posts. The last time I post here was about 9 months ago. I am still working on my 3rd and 4th round of reading the sidebar and I still learn new and interesting intergender psychological facts that are everybit what the genetic principle of human interactions derive from. So, here I am with another field report almost one and a half years after discovery.
Stats: 41yrs old
6’ - 210 - 15-18%BF
Bench - 255 5 sets of 6
Squats - 300 3 sets of 6 on good days. If My knee is bothering me then its still at 280
Curls - 155 4 sets of 8
Leg press 335 2 sets of 5
Lats - 100 4 sets of 8
Work out 3 times a week targeting different muscle groups. Cardio varys mountain biking and trail running.
My stats have improved since my last post and this seems to be what works for me and my schedule.
While I was spinning plates 9 months ago for quite some time I decided that I was ready to give it a go at a relationship. I met a woman online, we met for some fun and drinks afterwards. At first I wasn't really sure if I was ready for it but as the night went on the more fun I was having. I decided to just take my time with this woman (She’s 10 years younger then me). She was married young, had 2 kids the same age as my daughter. So, with my knowledge I have gained from this sub I had learned some questions to ask that would give me some intel as to where her head was at, what she was looking for, was she chasing beta bucks cause that wasn't me. All of her answers were very common, left abusive relationship, didn't divorce rape him and doesn't collect child support since they have 50/50 custody. She asks about me and I tell her about my whole messy divorce, what happen, and what I'm looking for in a relationship.
On our second date, The day was amazing, we both got a little buzzed and she decided to stay over. Needless to say I plowed her about 4 times that night. Amazing in bed. We get to talking about her pasts and swapping party stories. Her past reads just like the sidebar. Needless to say so do her actions. I can spot shit tests a mile away, responds positively to stern discipline, and comes for comfort when she is put in her place.
Most corrective posts here talk about fucking her like you slut. I couldn't agree with this more. The more often and the harder I plow her the more submissive she is the next day and on her best behavior.
Fast forward till present month, shes still fucking me like im a bronco, I laid out a plan for a potential future together with a timeline and goals both personally and financially. All things that I failed to do in my previous marriage. I didn't lead, I was needy, a beta faggot needing validation, and covert contracts out the ass until this sub kick my face in.
One day I tell her i’m paying $80 for my daughter to go to cheerleading. She loses her mind. Yelling at me as to why would I do that when I pay child support. I tell her because I want to do that so I know she will be able to go. She gets up and says “I can't hear anymore about this” and goes upstairs.
Pre-red pill I would have chased behind DEERing and apologizing. Instead, I go sit on the couch with my daughter and we laugh at a comedy show shes watching. About 45 mins goes by and she comes downstairs. I ask her if she is ready to talk about this and she look gives me an look and says we will.
I stood up, walk towards the kitchen and tell her NOW! I sat at our table we have bench seating. I tell her to sit beside me. I ask her (calmly) to start explaining her point of view. Immediately she raises her voice. I get up and start to walk in the living room. She asks where I am going? I turn around and smile, tell her when she is ready to talk to me like an adult i'll be happy to finish the discussion. She calmed down and asks me to come back. I sit down with her and she says why when I pay my ex money would I also pay for the cheerleading. She can pay out of the child support.
I told her the this is my decision to ensure that my daughter had the ability to try something she wants to do. I also state, I don't rely on anyone for my own happiness and I can't rely on anyone to make my daughter happy but me. I also state I can't say 100% that my ex would even pay for it possibly disappointing my daughter not enabling her to further her physical and social experience.
I also tell her in the future if she is unhappy with a decision I make she needs to calmly discuss it with me because I will not tolerate yelling and arguing in a relationship. I explained I did it before and that is my boundary I will not let be crossed. Her eyes teared up, she came over and sat on my lap and apologized for raising her voice. She appreciated my approach to handling her outburst. That night I got everything and anything I wanted including anal for her first time.
I know this is a long post and for anyone reading this just starting to unplug, it works. This is psychology at its best, it should be taught in schools. But with 90% of teachers female it would never fly. I can say, i’m still miles away from where I want to be, but i'm that much further from where I was. Its amazing the kind of relationship you can have when you understand how its supposed to be.
Be yourself, Do you, Lift, Read, STFU, and lead your life first then your woman. P.S. Fuck her like a slut she wants to be!!! Cause if you don't, someone will. It's just your turn. Thanks MRP