Ok guys

Situation: go out to a late weekday dinner with your gal, on short notice. Arrive separately, say she comes after work/ gym, and you same, after you’re done with work/ gym etc. Point being she gets there before you do. Like 15-20 min, enough time to maybe get seated/ sit at bar, get a drink, relax, wait for you. Text you naughty stuff while you’re on your way. She sent you a pic or two already about how she dolled up.

  1. She’s hinting in texts at already being hit my guys as she’s waiting at the bar. How do you respond?

You ask if she made any fun acquaintances, like named Rachel or Meagan. Drop heavy and playful hints she should be out recruiting another female, so you can have a threesome. Real or not, directly or indirectly, you set the stage she’s the queen of your harem. Plus it’s helpful subtle or not so subtle dread.

  1. You arrive. She sits not at the bar, but in a booth. (It would have been a bit too promiscuous after all since she looks hot and there are only a bunch of guys at the bar). She’s facing the doorway.

Where do you sit? Facing her? You’d be opposite and kinda far. Plus your back would be toward the door. Not safe.

You go sit right next to her, make her move &scoot over if she must. And she does indeed. Very happy you’re there, and she gets to hug kiss you if needed. You get to put your hands on her thighs and feel those fancy stockings.

  1. How do you act during dinner? The two of you are next to each other and you’re getting aroused. Do you make out and act all horn dog?

Negative. You play it cool. Playful normal self. Resist all tendency to have your body too much turned toward her, if at all. It’s your frame now, you’re enjoying yourself at dinner, sitting next to your hot woman. PDA is usually a sign of beta, pleasing / validation - seeking behavior.

Let the rest take care of itself. The setup is done for you to have a nice dinner, conversation, flirt. And of course when you get home enjoy her to the fullest.

Have fun guys.