I hadn't had sex for a while...years. After my last breakup. So I was even kind of anxious about keeping and getting an erection but that wasn't a problem. She even came several times and it took me a while to cum. Apparently I was too gentle with her and she expected me to be rough and fuck her furiously. She said she was even scared before we had sex because she didn't know what to expect (I look kind of intimating with a lot of muscle mass). She was heavily into BDSM, tying up, slapping etc. I guess I didn't get the cues and led her on because I slapped her ass not too long after approaching her. So I can understand why she expected the get fucked like that.

I have read the sex god method and all that but I was just in a different kind of mood. I'm on another dry spell and honestly that girl made me feel like not having sex again. She only said this when she was pissed off and accidentally blurted it out.

Where do I go from here? Do I have to beat a woman up next time I have sex with her?