Am I ugly or being fat/short is just that bad?

FlowFreal · 2019-08-31T18:42:40+00:00

Lift, do a cut first.

Get a better haircut.

You look young, you shouldn’t have a beard that long, trim or get rid or it.

Lift.

Waytoohardtousername · 2019-08-31T18:35:39+00:00

Your hairstyle is not very good, and makes your head look tall.
Do you even use hair-products?
Trim beard sides for better chin shape.

After this, you'll look good. Lose weight and you'll look very good.

nobody_thinks · 2019-08-31T19:03:25+00:00

your fat and lack of definition / tonality muscle is the problem. Not your face (nothing wrong with it) or your height (whatever I've seen short guys smash).

also the hair is kind of faggy. don't compensate for your height with your hair.

long horsefaces are the mark of the beta.

amphix339 · 2019-08-31T20:51:55+00:00

Ask ur barber to give u a sharper looking beard by trimming the sides, get a undercut for ur hair

Lose that stupid look u got going on as well, have sterner eyes

Don't have to tell u about body fat % sounds like u know about it, but don't forget about muscle. Being skinny shouldn't be your goal

Do all this right and in 6 - 12 months you should be an 8. You're a 4 now

bruiser18 · 2019-08-31T20:53:38+00:00

Not even ugly.

Lose the weight, get a better haircut, trim the beard. When you lose weight start wearing clothes that fit your physique nicely.

Alexlax11 · 2019-08-31T18:52:50+00:00

Everything you listed is fixable. Lose the fucking weight, but some clothes that fit, and groom well. You don’t have life on “hard mode”. You’re able bodied, and healthy. Let go of that victim complex. Gain some perspective.

frick-a-frack · 2019-08-31T19:30:52+00:00

Despite being bald and sometimes wishing I had hair.... your hair is too over-the-top. Try a drastic buzz cut or something. Change your look entirely to shock the shit out of everyone who knows you and expects the chubby, high haired dude.

Lift. Yes. I agree with this. Women like muscles. Even the ones who don’t.

If you want some facial hair, try just the “chin beard” look and maybe a 5 o’clock shadow everywhere else.

I know the “dadbod, full beard” thing is supposedly in, but those guys are a dime a dozen. Fat and bearded. LOL

Stand out. Look good. Look tough (even if you aren’t).

--Kamikaze-- · 2019-08-31T20:05:15+00:00

Eat less, trim beard to a little bit more than a stubble then take some hair off the top and get the sides tapered. Start lifting as well.

useyourillusion89 · 2019-08-31T18:34:45+00:00

Get/keep your diet in check and LIFT. Get in great shape and it will do wonders. I wouldn't call you incel level or anything. You have an opportunity, take it.

Eartripping · 2019-08-31T18:52:56+00:00

Good face, get that bf% down and a better hairstyle. Go for recomp instead of just getting skinny this usually works great for sorta chubby guys like yourself. Lots of protein and lifting but keep a caloric deficit. Posture is crucial especially when you're short so make sure thats in check too.

Ant1matter8 · 2019-08-31T18:56:28+00:00

You're not much of a charmer is all i can say. Stop being a fat fuck, work on shit you can actually change, you will always be a midget so that will never change, accept it.

[deleted] · 2019-08-31T21:21:17+00:00

Do you like being short and fat?

399oly · 2019-08-31T21:39:18+00:00

I know a photographer that has a similar face, dude is dating a model and works at a night club...

looks are like being well dressed to an interview it will get you in the door but being well dressed will not get you the job

danieltroungesister · 2019-08-31T21:46:21+00:00

Bro you got thick hair, good beard, all you need to do is eat healthy and lift heavy. I would’ve even worry about cutting till you’ve built some muscle. Being short sucks but you got all the features it takes to get bitches besides the height

Chadster113 · 2019-08-31T21:53:58+00:00

*Am I a bitch?

FTFY

Yes

oooKenshiooo · 2019-08-31T22:10:18+00:00

You got good forward facial growth, great cheek bones and seemingly a wide jaw. That shit is golden. Bei g short sucks, but there nothing you can do about it.

zeekt12 · 2019-08-31T23:03:03+00:00

Both

JedYorks · 2019-08-31T19:25:44+00:00

It’s bad bro. You will never make a woman feel small the way a 6’0”+ person will. If you are trying to get hookups, it’s over. You will have to try extra hard and it won’t seem natural. You may get sex like one or two times but you will never make them feel that lust your taller friends can. Being short is a dealbreaker for the vast majority of women, you can still cope.

Title	Am I ugly or being fat/short is just that bad?
Author	cakefmateus
Upvotes	2
Comments	44
Date	August 31, 2019 6:30 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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