Does status and money actually attract women in the sense that they would be crazy in love with you?

imahoaxandacoach · 2019-09-12T20:33:31+00:00

Dont confuse attraction with love. And woman cant love you the way you want them to. Their love is always conditional (its not their fault).

What attracts women is strenght, confidence and competence.

Wiley-canvas · 2019-09-12T21:22:42+00:00

You’re projecting what men find attractive to what women find attractive. Men don’t care about monetary success because we are wired differently. Monetary success signifies to a woman that you’re successful at something, and a leader. It also means you can probably give her experiences someone with less money cannot. That being said, if you’re socially inept, money won’t solve your problems. But it’s better than being broke and socially inept.

“At least as a rich man when I have to face my problems I show up at the back of a limo wearing a $2,000 suit and a $40,000 gold fucking watch.” - Jordan Belfort, Wolf of Wall Street

Looks. Money. Game.

You typically need 2/3 to really thrive with women. Looks doesn’t mean just face - being in shape counts. And 3/3 you’ll be unstoppable. That’s why these are the main 3 topics on TRP.

thrwy75479 · 2019-09-13T01:36:02+00:00

Looks matter but they're more important when you're younger simply because—for both men and women—they fade, albeit perhaps at different rates.

That said, status and money definitely brings girls to you. Multiple girls will become competitive over your attention, as they would over a hot guy. As long as you're not Quasimodo, have game, and aren't needy, you'll get girls.

Also, watch out for the older ones that are desperate for a BB. They'll be super-submissive, and want sex 24/7. You can enjoy it, but remember that it's an act to suck you into commitment.

celincelin · 2019-09-13T05:17:57+00:00

No, that’s what the pool boy is for.

Treatscatscrave · 2019-09-13T07:53:44+00:00

It depends on HOW they got the money.

For a man to make serious money, he has to have self-assurance, be different in some way (good musician, businessman etc) confidence and take risks- very attractive qualities in a guy.

If, however, he's some average beta Joe who wins the lotto then It's safe to say the sex is transactional.

Now some might say that this doesn't matter as long as they are getting laid which is fair enough but it won't be mutual desire.

THE_ANGRY_SHARTER · 2019-09-12T20:36:16+00:00

IMHO it adds points to your attractiveness score. Like it adds +4 points to your score to be upper middle class or more.

Like if he was a 3 in the face, he'd be a 7 if he was upper middle class or better. If he was already a 7, he's now a 12, etc.

Stability and financial security attract women. It's just how we operate. It's like tits and ass for men. But for us.

I think the guys who complain about this may be over hyping how attractive they

30dirtyfingers · 2019-09-13T06:28:33+00:00

Its not really money that attracts girls (unless shes a gold digger), its the character of the guy who has the money. That guy is good looking because he can afford expensive clothes, haircuts, etc. Hes powerful because he can throw is money around and get shit done. Hes has abundance mentality because he knows he has the money to buy whatever he wants. His money makes him confident. So women are attracted to him. Same goes with status. Its the confidence that he has due to his money and status that makes him attractive.

Take that stuff away from him and see how much female attention he gets. If he does, its not about his money or status, its about him.

Sepean · 2019-09-13T12:08:55+00:00

No.

It's frame, game and looks, that's what turns them on and makes them fall in love. Alpha traits.

Sure, they'll date and marry guys with status and money - for the status and money. That's not love, and as soon as the guy is hooked by a ring and kids, it's going to be dead bedroom unless he brings plenty of alpha.

UnbreakableFrame · 2019-09-12T21:56:30+00:00

Title	Does status and money actually attract women in the sense that they would be crazy in love with you?
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Date	September 12, 2019 8:31 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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