The point of TRP should be to have healthy peronsal development, not to dominate or score "alpha points"

circlhat · 2014-12-15T17:25:21+00:00

I agree with everything you said, however TRP has always been about this, some people may not see it that way , but most of us feel the same way.

If you're bragging about getting a handjob from a "HB7.5" virgin off of Tinder in your "Tinder game" guide, you're not an alpha.

That was never the point of TRP but its helpful as it gives a lot of guys hope that it can happen to them if they do xyz.

SirScotland · 2014-12-15T17:32:24+00:00

I hope to see more posts like this, putting TRP back on the path it originally followed and what it originally meant. TRP is about understanding women and how men can positively interact with them with the aim of achieving happiness for both sexes - although of course we prioritize our own happiness.

We should all be here for constructive advice on how to improve our lives through exposure to truth, lets remember that and not become shallow.

Hokuto199x · 2014-12-15T17:26:58+00:00

TRP is just reality. How we utilize our knowledge of reality is on us. We get a lot of posts saying what it "should be about" or "what it's really about" - It's not really "about" anything deeper than explaining reality, especially in terms of male/female dynamics and sexual strategy. The field reports we read here are just attempts at real world application of the knowledge. If you want to use the knowledge to get laid, then I guess that's what it's about for you. If you want to use it to have a happy marriage/family, then that's what it's about for you. One of the things people grapple with is the fact this is amoral. That means it's not good nor bad; it just is. You can do good or bad things with any type of knowledge.

[deleted] · 2014-12-15T17:47:23+00:00

Concern trolling. If you don't like certain content, down vote it, don't post walls of text complaining about how certian posts don't make you Haaaaapppyy.

[deleted] · 2014-12-15T17:35:23+00:00

performing these self-improvement actions for female validation is perfectly fine. TRP strategy will open your eyes to the differences you can make in your life and THAT FEMALE ATTENTION IS NOT THE ONLY GAIN YOU'RE EARNING

I say go ahead and do it for the women if that's what motivates you. you will change if you work hard enough

when you start to notice your sense of self, relationships, friendships, and career interactions improve, you notice it was worth it even if done for the wrong reason

tyofwa · 2014-12-15T17:54:29+00:00

Im upvoting this to get the conversation going, but agree that this is a borderline concern troll.

I agree in principle that your citations don't define Alpha. However, the true Alphas are probably not hanging out in this forum unless they have a teaching motivation (like Rollo's occasional posts). Consider the rest of us to be Alphas in Training (AIT). Through this lens, consider any progressive academic process; Ill use math as an example:

If you are confident performing addition with four-figure numbers, you are not a rocket scientist
If you are able to calculate a restaurant tip in your head, you are not a rocket scientist
If you just landed an A+ grade on quadratic equations, you are not a rocket scientist.

AITs need incremental accomplishments. They need lessons which may fall short of true Alpha, but lead them in the direction of Alpha. We need support, encouragement, critical feedback, and "lesson plans".

Buddhists seek Nirvana. The Buddhist journey involves many lessons which cannot DIRECTLY correlate to achieving Nirvana; yet the sum of all the lessons pave a path to it.

Gorillalpha · 2014-12-15T17:36:53+00:00

Concern Trolling

Since we're getting more and more users every day, the signal to noise ratio is bound to decline by at least a little bit. Because of this, we have decided that one such dampener to signal is concern trolling. From this point forward, we will delete any post that attempts to "steer" the subreddit or complains about the direction of content.

If for some reason you're not happy with the quality of posts here, I encourage you to upvote good material, downvote bad material, and submit your own high-quality material.

[deleted] · 2014-12-15T18:21:54+00:00

If you're bragging about getting a handjob from a "HB7.5" virgin off of Tinder in your "Tinder game" guide, you're not an alpha.

you're still more alpha than the guy that hates on you for bragging about getting a handy from a girl you met of a mobile app.

If you're writing a field report about freezing out your wife to get laid instead of directly addressing what is dysfunctional about her behaviour, you're immature and you're not an alpha.

controversial opinion here, if you married a woman that has a dysfunctional behavior, you are not alpha. Get a divorce and start getting handies of tinder virgins.

Who is TC?

am I not alpha for not knowing what you mean, because calling someone out for being crazy just because you disagree sound really weak.

This sub should be about taking TRP and seeing through the BS facade if what society is doing to men and the disconnect between what women say and what women do. It shouldn't be about getting laid as many times as possible. It's a completely unfulfilling thing to do, trust me.

I agree, this sub should be about swallowing the red pill and realising that modern women are toxic and no amount of good will and wishfull thinking will fix that. So why not strap on 2 condoms and go to town. Why not enjoy the yuckiness.

I really wished I could trust you but the hate towards men that actually try and make the best out of life tells me you are a small, unhappy, frustrated person. And I kinda prefer not to listen to people that are less happy then me, they usually don't have anything valuable to add. I have always had a personal distaste for people that morph their envy and bitterness into morality.(hint, a lot of girl hate that as well, but you know girls as you said, so I really shouldn't even have mentioned it)

It's not that an alpha shuts down other people or commands attention, he goes his own way and does this for his interest.

actually it kinda is. you can be a omega looser and disconnect from society and have your delusional mini victories but without people to follow respect and admire you, you still lose at life, it's just less painful because your delusional bubble is protected from reality.

which includes doing "non-alpha" shit, and I've never had more healthy attention from women.

sorry about the girl, but if you get laid regularly and still choose to chase the fantasy and need "healthy" blue pill validation, you have deeper emotional issues you need to address and no healthy woman on earth will sacrifice her life and uterus to make you feel loved forever after.

If you have meaningless sex with 100 HB 9s this year, will that really make you happy? Same goes for your six pack...

try 20, and keep 3 to 4 on the bench as plates, I guarantee you that at the very least you won't have this attitude problem, hot pussy really does wonders for grumpiness.(well it's actually an inverse causation, you can't get consistently hot women if you are a negative person)

behaving a certain way to get laid, how is this not beta behaviour.

it is, in the same way as behaving like a mommas boy to get emotional validation is the same thing, just way more emotionally lazy and sexually unsatisfying.

You're still motivated solely by female attention.

which isn't all that bad, as long as you don't get trapped and have the ability to stil pull young tail. Sure ideally you would go MGTOW and leave the cespool but that is to boring and monotonous for most men and comes with a lot of social backlash.

We are designed to enjoy life with the company of attractive women. So we do the next best thing, you make up your own rules, you enter the cespool knowing the risk and the rewards. We fuck the sluts, we have ltr with the homey girl and we have babies with those that have a lot of love to give. We take the best every woman has to offer and we stay aware of what we are paying for it at all times. That is what being a red piller is about, having a personal emotional accounts balance. Not using masked contracts, fees and special guarantees. Knowing at all times what you pay for it and getting the best deal you can.

[deleted] · 2014-12-15T17:44:21+00:00

TRP should be about the rise nationalistic movements overthrowing governments.

TRP should be about having sex with as many women as possible raw-dog to pass on your genes.

TRP should be about bench pressing 3 plates.

TRP should blah blah blah blah blah.

Its not anything. You discuss something and move on. Want more pussy? Go to seduction in addition to reading here. Want to improve your finances and health? Go to /r/personalfinance and /r/fitness. Want to start the world? Go to /r/darkenlightenment.

JackGetsIt · 2014-12-15T17:30:26+00:00

It shouldn't bother you. There's really no scoring real points in an internet discussion board. I don't see how you can really 'alpha' someone who's typing something on a computer. The term alpha comes free real life face to face competition IMHO. If someone's bragging on a thread don't let it take away from any real advice you can glean from that person.

Title	The point of TRP should be to have healthy peronsal development, not to dominate or score "alpha points"
Author	vkob
Upvotes	49
Comments	49
Date	December 15, 2014 4:27 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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