Have similar academic and job opportunities for both sexes greatly destroyed ‘Men have power/money’ in the West?

I've first came to be fully aware of TRP TBP, feminism, male rights movement’s etc. after seeing things like the Isla Vista shootings with Elliot Rodger, Hillary Clinton, Feminists, ‘The Wage Gap’, false rape accusations and coming across boards like 4chan. Before then I had some idea but I didn’t really care. I think I realized that being a young male with gender and race issues got me interested in seeing how these things affected me

Now from what I understand, TRP view is that the average white western woman is the most sexually desirable in her late teens all through her late twenties and perhaps mid-thirties. The average white western male of similar social value and average looks simply does not have the options when it comes not just to sex but obtaining desirable relationships compared to women. Not only can men not get sex, they probably can’t convince someone to have intimacy with them.

What I don’t agree on is the view the average man who goes to college, obtains a good job and remains in good shape, has a greater SMV in his mid-30’s onwards whereas the woman who had was able to fuck and get relationships in her 20s now is undesirable probably due to having kids. This is true, but only if the only commodity the woman has is sex, which would be in ‘ghetto’ low income neighbourhoods or poor patriarchal areas (Sub-Saharan Africa, South America, and South-East Asia). Since women don’t get educated in these places, their only valuable for their commodity, sex and making babies. They usually enter prostitution/sold into slavery or sold/forced into marriages. By the time they’re 30, they have two kids and are either a single mother in ghetto areas or in marriages with men they don’t want. However a man who has gotten an education and job is now valuable. This was the case with my father who could migrate to the west from a developing country and take his wife.

Living in the West however. The average man and woman have similar academic qualifications. This means that men traditionally having ‘Women are valued for what they are and men are valued for what they can do’ seems to fall apart. Male don’t have that privilege anymore. Whereas, beautiful women haven’t lost any of their sexual or romantic desire but now; they have a job and along with that, an inherent sexual/romantic value.

So taking a 35yr old female and 35yr old male. The former is single and working an IT job while the latter is single and working in the some company in IT earning similar wages. Do they have similar dating opportunities?