Are men not attracted to confidence as much as women?

Lonny_zone · 2016-02-03T05:11:45+00:00

A lack of confidence in women does not subtract points like it does for men.

If a cute girl lacks confidence it can be seen as cute.

If a handsome guy lacks confidence then he will seem less attractive then he is. Superman becomes Clark Kent.

sublimemongrel · 2016-02-03T06:37:03+00:00

Ok I have to say all that high T low T shit I see is bullshit. No one knows that higher T is going to do anything, they prescribe it for a variety of problems, it doesn't necessarily make a difference at all. It's basically a scam, why do you see so many "low T" clinics popping up everywhere. People see it as s fix, much like opioid pain clinics.

Plus, it can cause HA, stroke, and various other cardiac problems. Higher T is not the answer to confidence.

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[deleted] · 2016-02-03T05:58:14+00:00

I don't think men are attracted to confidence all that much. Girls that aren't confident are so cute sometimes. Guess, it causes our fatherly instincts to rise or something.

watereol · 2016-02-03T06:07:23+00:00

I don't want a girl to be an insecure mess, because in my experience those girls are really prone to cheat on you for any attention. But other than that I don't care about how confident she is.

[deleted] · 2016-02-03T05:30:59+00:00

A confident woman is like a plus in a way. If the woman has the guts to be direct about wanting sex and wants to be bold, it's a good thing. But it's by no means required at all. A girl's primary source of attention will come form her appearance.

In contrast, I have never found a guy that was successful with women without being confident.

voteGOPk · 2016-02-03T07:02:04+00:00

I am attracted to nice butt, legs and tits and at least not deformed face.

anything else is negotiable to a great extent.

gasparddelanuit · 2016-02-03T04:21:52+00:00

Are men not attracted to confidence as much as women?

Yes this is true. The woman's lizard brain translates confidence as alpha, indicating superior genes and a greater ability to look after her and her offspring. That's not to say that confidence indicates superior genes, just that this is the translation that the woman's lizard brain makes.

Edited for clarification.

coffeedynamics · 2016-02-03T05:15:38+00:00

Wearing a skirt with half your ass hanging out takes a sort of confidence and men are certainly attracted to that.

betterdeadthanbeta · 2016-02-03T05:17:49+00:00

Dunno bout the rest of you, confidence isnt sexy to me. If anything, i go for the emotionally/psychologically vulnerable, insecure types. They're easier to manipulate.

Title	Are men not attracted to confidence as much as women?
Author	45MagnumRevolver
Upvotes	6
Comments	39
Date	February 3, 2016 4:11 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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