Super long comment ahead:
So, one thing that TRP totally gets right is that women aren't that much "deeper" than men. Men want good looking women, and women shockingly enough also want good looking men. Too many men over-focus on "game" (or, on the flip side, act complacent and assume "someone will love me for who I am" while not showering) so I think it's important to point out:
- Get in shape (No, you don't have to be Brad Pitt from fight club. Women generally like mildly fit/lean guys. Bradley Cooper comes to mind as an example)
- Have good hygiene, get a decent haircut, maybe grow some scruff (it makes every guy's face look more angular and masculine), dress well!
All of that should be obvious but for whatever reason it's not.
As for the non-TRP game, I think one hugely underrated thing is just basic extroversion. I'm not talking negging or "dark triad" whatever, but just...putting yourself out there. Of course this takes some confidence, which may be hard to foster, but it's a "fake it till you make it" thing. Start new friendships, not only with the opposite sex but with the same sex. Just say hi to more people.
The area where I seriously swerve away from TRP is: DON'T GET SEXUAL IMMEDIATELY. I suppose if all you want is endless ONS this could be a fine strategy but if you actually want a girlfriend/boyfriend, anyone "worth your time" will find this desperate and gross. Sending a text asking for a blowjob is just never okay unless it's a joke and you're already dating. Stop with the negging and combative behavior like "I don't care about your schedule, you'll see me on Thursday." Stop it. It's weird.
There's a middle area between "M'lady you are the most beautiful rose to grace thine Earth" and "Fuck you cunt, you give me a beej or you can say goodbye to my rock hard abs." Just act like a normal human being and treat women like normal human beings. Yes, DON'T put pussy on the pedestal but that doesn't mean you have to act like a complete cad. Women are different from men but not THAT different. We like attractive people who are fun to hang out with- shocker, right?
Also- develop cool interests. Nobody likes talking to the guy whose only topic of conversation is Family Guy quotations. This doesn't mean you need to be some world traveler (I actually personally find travel a bit boring) but join fun classes or activities. Try to develop your own unique sense of humor. This doesn't mean that if you're funny, everyone's panties will drop, but being funny can be a huge asset if a woman is already physically attracted.
At the end of the day, women aren't worse than men, but they aren't better than men either. Men cheat, so do women. Men lie, so do women. This doesn't mean women are "manipulative whores", it just means you can't expect 100% pure angel behavior from them all the time, because would you expect that from a man? Expect HUMAN behavior from women. Expect that they may sometimes just not be physically attracted to you because you're not their type. Expect that they may like hanging out with you, but they prefer a guy who's more fit. It sounds harsh, but men do it all the time, and it's pretty much obvious when men have those physical tastes.
Also, and this one should be obvious but...if you want an LTR, don't spend all your time chasing the classic "blonde sorority party girl." I'm not saying they're always bad wife material, but there are equally hot (and probably more likeminded) women who don't run in those circles. While sorority girls are usually pretty, you don't need to be in a sorority in order to be pretty. Talk to girls at parties, girls your friends know, girls you meet in class/work/activities, or even just out and about! I'm not against the daytime approach, as long as it isn't overtly sexual and/or invasive.
Anyway, sorry that was insanely long. Hopefully someone will benefit from this. (stolen from /u/grandpafetish)
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