So my buddy of abt twenty years has been with this woman for abt the same amount of time. Ive known her just as long and considered her my friend as well. She was always totally in love with the dude, and spent many years trying to lock him down. My bud is the epitomy of an alpha male. Big dude, muscular, badass mentality... scored with lots of women etc. He finally settled down and married her and had two kids that are now teenagers.

Its a bit of a rags to 'riches' story as well. Starting out they lived in a small trailer and had nothing. She never worked or went to college or tried to do anything with herself except try to be J's woman. He worked his ass off doing the shittiest of manual labor gigs. Since then he started a few businesses that were successful and made a few investments here or there that laid off. They had been living on a 100 acre estate with a big nice spanish style house (4-5k sq ft im guessing). She got a new car every two years... had a credit card she was allowed to charge up with shoes purses hairdoes or whatever she wanted. All my friend wanted in return waswas her loving devotion and faithfulness.

Well abt two years she decided she would fuck around in him. She banged the basketball coach at the kids small town private school. Word got out about it and she got caught red handed. My man J was trying to hold it all together still for the sake of his family. He went thru marriage counseling and all that and listened to all the bs abt how it may have been his fault for not supporting her emotiinally.

She continued to be distant, spending most of her time avoiding her duties as a wife and a mother, out drinkin wine with other man-haters and spending all her time kn social media (doing the same there as well)

She left home, and is suing for divorce. I guess they had some pre trial hearing where a judge ordered my man j to pay her $2k a month (more than enough to live confy in rural ga). He told judge he already pays for her to have a nice house and such, at home with her family.

He had a bad month last month and couldnt pay. She has already filed a motion to have his liscense suspended for not paying. She also accuses him of trying to brainwash the kids against her. Has absolutely no acountability for her actions.

Im rambling on at his point.. just wanted to get the jist of the story out there to the trp community to see if y'all have any advice for ol J. Or just as a warning to anyone who might be considering marriage. Ironically... i am currently engaged myself and stories like this scare the shit out of me. Sorry for any typos im on my cellphone...