RPers, can you give examples of how you act like a jerk to women?

Lonny_zone · 2015-08-20T23:33:15+00:00

Tease her about something

Ask her to open the door for me

Ask her to go get me something from somewhere

Stare into her eyes and be totally silent, if there is a right moment

Touch her arm or small of her back if she says something nice or does something good.

I don't think these are really acting like a Jerk, but it's just to establish a presence/tension with her.

TRPThrowRug · 2015-08-20T23:22:19+00:00

Acting like she's replaceable.

f3yleaf · 2015-08-20T23:56:06+00:00

Told my ex that if she had a problem with the terms of the relationship she was welcome to gtfo, but thats hardly being an asshole, Im willing to do that with any girl im involved with.

Ive sometimes used girls for sex who obviously wanted a real relationship at some point, even if I knew it was never going to happind, was always honest if asked but somehow they often did not believe me and thought they could win me over, never felt I owed them pre-emptive honesty tho, lead to a bit of drama sometimes.

I was a shameless player many years ago and did something we called "drunk caveman game" basically screening girls out fast by being overly physical and familiar, point being girls who were not creeped out were probably physically attracted enough to fuck me.

ECoast_Man · 2015-08-21T00:16:50+00:00

Not texting them back after ONS, being late to everything, blowing off stuff because I'm too busy, not inviting them to shit, etc.

The list goes on. All of these have legitimate reasons, but I'm merely listing the ones I've been labelled a jerk for. There is no two sides to any of these stories apparently, just 'I'm a shit lord'.

ILoveFatBlackWomen · 2015-08-20T23:29:24+00:00

Using her like a sex object, this has the interesting dual effect of both making her cum far more often and also her thinking there is a problem.

cats_or_get_out · 2015-08-21T00:13:56+00:00

"I like your sweater... my grandma has one just like that."

Saw a girl with a nirvana shirt:

"Nirvana sucks. They only had two good songs"

It's all about tone and environment. Push and pull.

Push: "yes I think your taste in music sucks."
She yells or goes on a rant
Pull: "it's nice that you have an opinion though. Most people just listen to whatever"

Generally disregard women and make them work for your attention; make them qualify themselves. Don't try to please them.

[deleted] · 2015-08-21T04:05:45+00:00

When I was younger, I was a firm follower of TRP. Granted, TRP didn't exist at that point in time, but I could have written it in my early 20s. Got laid a lot more back in those days, to be sure. I was the shit, you weren't shit, fuck what you're trying to do. And broken-ass women loved me.

Intentionally left the relationship ambiguous. While you were falling in love, I was figuring out which of your friends I could fuck. Then I fucked them. While we were together.
Disappearing acts. The ghost. I'm bored with you, I've moved on to newer things, I'm just going to stop talking to you now.
Used you. You're dropping cash on me. I'm taking that cash and using it to get in another girl's pants. You pay for my nipples to be pierced, I've got a different girl sucking on them within the month. I need some dope. That'll do, thanks. How about a blowjob before you leave? Need a ride here. Need a ride there. Don't feel like burning my gas. Oh, by the way, I'm getting some pussy after you drop me off. Unless you're picking me up, in which case I struck out and you're my fallback.

That's just off the top of my head. Be the shit. Abundance mentality. Spin plates. Fact is, the core tenets of TRP do what they say on the tin. There are probably at least a handful of women who still have complexes and relationship issues because of things I did. Sky's the fucking limit if you can manage to drug away your empathy.

Downside is that one day you may reflect on yourself and find it a little hard to live with. Then other days you feel like the world stacked itself against you and you remembered how easy it was. Convince yourself that they've all said 'fuck you,' so fuck them too. Old habits don't die hard. They don't die at all. They just rest until you're ready to call them up again.

Wolfwoodd · 2015-08-21T16:45:11+00:00

Ehh.. I don't.. not really. I'm actually pretty nice to women. However, when I first meet girls, I do playfully warn them that I'm a jerk.

What I'm actually attempting to communicate is that I have no interest in monogamy. It's not something I'm willing to compromise on. I'm non-monogamous for life. The other thing I'm attempting to communicate is that I'm very sexually experienced/dominant and that I flirt fairly aggressively. Some women think this makes me a jerk.

The other reason some women think I'm a jerk: I just don't put up with a lot of bullshit. I'm looking for somebody who's excited about having sex with me, and I do my best to weed out time-wasters and drama-starters. I do cut contact with girls who act out inappropriately or who give me too many mixed signals / red flags.

[deleted] · 2015-08-21T18:19:14+00:00

Offtopic: I like your username.

Title	RPers, can you give examples of how you act like a jerk to women?
Author	ILoveFatBlackWomen
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Comments	25
Date	August 20, 2015 11:18 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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