I've been reading a lot of the Red Pill and in general it makes a lot of intuitive sense, the idea that women love in a different way to men and seek the highest value mate more than men do and so on. But occasionally I think "what would happen if I mentioned this kind of thinking to friend X?" the problem then is they might ask me "Well, where's the proof?" and I can't prove any of it.

There's an awful lot of ancedotes on /r/TheRedPill that go "Woman says she loves man and then cheats, therefore women love differently and seek the highest value male, AWALT", but how can we tell (assuming these stories are true) that these are not just members of the group of people, of both genders, who cheat?

Infidelity statistics I've seen in the past suggest the percentage of people who have ever cheated in any relationship is about 60% for men and 55% for women, this is self reported however and we know from studies done on sexual partner count that men lie upwards (although I'm not sure any men would lie upwards on a survey about cheating as that would involve admitting to infidelity they didn't do) and women downwards so I think it's safe to assume the percentage for each gender is actually the same or close to it, somewhere in the 55-60% range.

Additionally, what is /r/TheRedPill's view of men who cheated in committed relationships? Such men definitely exist and, unless women are aggressively lying in surveys, they are almost as common as the women. Would this not suggest that in fact there is not so much different about women as regards pair bonding after all?