Screening for attraction from non-sexually active girls

Maaahoney · 2015-01-22T18:45:38+00:00

Your excuse for not touching them is a typical beta horseshit limiting belief.

Take it or leave it. That is going to hold you up big time. You already know it, too.

rpscrote · 2015-01-22T20:30:09+00:00

Why I can't screen by touching them

I understand that the GLL approach is to screen for physical attraction by being extremely touchy, and then seeing whether the girl pulls away. However, because I am often in a large social circle, I can't do this - if the girl isn't attracted to me, being really physical will get me a bad reputation. I've seen this happen to other guys who were touchy with girls who weren't attracted to them.

I am extremely touchy with girls not in my social circle and it works fine.

No, wrong. You say this but this is incorrect. Touching and gauging the reaction is the key and you know it as you mention earlier if you want to screen quickly. You need to engage the limbic part of their brain since they wont consciously signal you

Re-frame it bro. Why are you so concerned with "how it seems in your social group?" Guys who screen aren't concerned with how people view them. Here's what really happens: you get touchy, friendly and flirty with every girl in the group -- and touchy and friendly with the guys even too (clasp of the shoulder, etc.). Its weird at first -- then people figure out that's "just how you are." If someone asked "Why is iherulikepsydukz so touchy?" they go "Oh him? He's always like that, he's just friendly."

Be exuberant and outgoing. I knew a guy that always laughed at jokes, always was smiling, would grab you around the shoulders if you were a guy and around the waist if you were a girl. He totally killed it, all the time, and was a great guy to hang with. Nobody was ever weird about it -- it's just how he is

If you cant do this then you're just going to have to spend the time

knitro · 2015-01-22T18:32:17+00:00

Just be prepared for more than normal deadends, but proceed as you would.

There's little wrong with the approach, its the uniqueness of the target.

Women still respond to the same things, no matter their experience, but inexperienced girls might not be able to reciprocate as clearly.

TekkomanKingz · 2015-01-22T18:47:31+00:00

I grew up around them and here's what you have to do. There are a few types but let's use the type that will not respond to the typical "Alpha" aggressive qualities as an example:

1) Display intelligence about a particular subject. This has gotten me past the initial ice block many a time.

2) Get some liquor into them if possible (or Caffeine if before 3pm). BUT NOT TOO MUCH.

3) Get them into a situation where you are authoritative. For example if you are an Officer of a Uni club or maybe a supervisor at your part-time job and can give freebies or something.

4) Group environment - Maximize your chances by hitting up a larger group and socializing with more of them in one event/sitting. They probably won't visibly show offense to you moving on to another girl because that's not how they are raised. They probably won't gossip about it either.

Remember: This only works for traditional Asian-American (generally 1st generation American) girls very close to their home culture and who are respectful. If they are Americanized to the core then you'll need a different approach.

Title	Screening for attraction from non-sexually active girls
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Date	January 22, 2015 5:57 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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