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[Somewhat silly] What do females find attractive about UFO Guy?

s5sh

February 27, 2015
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Title [Somewhat silly] What do females find attractive about UFO Guy?
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s5sh

Upvotes 0
Comments 40
Date February 27, 2015 4:03 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2xd1m2/somewhat_silly_what_do_females_find_attractive/
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[–]GridReXXit be like that3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

He's giving me Owen Wilson. And high. Not my cup of tea, but plenty of equally stoner type women will relate to him. And he's not ugly.

[–]throwawayjapanese1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed. He looks high as the space station. Not my thing.

[–]ThorLivesSkeptical Purple Pill Man3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'd be curious to know the ages of the women who like, and don't like, this guy. I have a feeling that women who are attracted to him are young.

[–]Vornnash1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The happy-go-lucky demeanor is successful with certain young women, no doubt.

[–]Piranhapoodle3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Big cheekbones, broad shoulders, big eyebrows, not fat, speaks openly, unapologetically and confidently and seems to have a generally positive attitude.

[–]southwer2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I want to believe that he is epically trolling that reporter. But probably not. He is physically good looking but to me, not dateable.

edited to add: but I would LOVE to have a beer with him, he is hilarious, regardless of his intention.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He's cute and dorky. Definitely not traditionally hot but I get his appeal.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

OP this is actually kind of an awesome vid in terms of the little discussion we have going in this sub. This guy screams 'Ryan Lochte' to me - good looking (he needs to be less unkempt for my taste but the raw materials are definitely there), happy-go-lucky, not the sharpest knife in the drawer but totally fine with that and not desperately trying to compensate for any insecurities. I instantly liked this man, my mind just went "this guy would be fun to have beers with." He doesn't even respond badly to the reporter being a patronizing dick at the end of the interview (pretty sure he gets the pronunciation right the second time but reporter douche needs to underline that UFO guy is a dummy so he corrects him again...i think).

This is a very unredpill example of an attractive dude - emotionally open, happy, smiley, no chips on his shoulder, no attempts to maintain frame or come across as overtly 'alpha'.

Now, based on this short vid do I want a relationship with this guy? No. I may not even want to sleep with him, but hang out with him after a brief initial meeting? Hell yeah.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

He doesn't even respond badly to the reporter being a patronizing dick at the end of the interview

A good example of maintaining frame.

[–]CFRProflcopter( ͠° ͟ʖ ͡°)0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

I disagree. According to TRP, maintaining frame is about social dominance over a conversation. You're always supposed to control the meaning and direction of the conversation. The interviewer clearly established his social dominance, but the UFO guy just didn't care.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I agree that his frame wasn't great to begin with. Like you say the interviewer clearly established dominance.

But the frame that UFO guy did have, not a care in the world, happy and enthusiastic wasn't disturbed at all by the interviewer's dick move.

He kept his frame and while it might not be the best frame when you think of seduction, it's still a good example of holding frame in my opinion.

[–]CFRProflcopter( ͠° ͟ʖ ͡°)0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

But the frame that UFO guy did have, not a care in the world, happy and enthusiastic wasn't disturbed at all by the interviewer's dick move.

That's not "frame" though. It's just ambivalence.

He kept his frame and while it might not be the best frame when you think of seduction, it's still a good example of holding frame in my opinion.

You can construe anything as a good example of anything if you're really willing. Holding frame specifically refers to social dominance. This is not social dominance, therefore it's not holding frame.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am gonna go read up on frame a bit.

[–]GridReXXit be like that0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

More like indifference. Not really ambivalence.

[–]Vornnash0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

He held a happy-go-lucky frame at least. He could have easily got annoyed or whatever. It's true a lot of happy-go-lucky guys are attractive to young women.

[–]CFRProflcopter( ͠° ͟ʖ ͡°)0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Holding frame is about social dominance. If your "frame" is just any demeanor, then any can hold frame and it isn't necessarily good. An anti-social person could hold frame by being anti-social. A weirdo could hold frame by being weird.

Your "holding frame" is literally "be yourself."

[–]StabbyPantsPillhead0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Your "holding frame" is literally "be yourself."

which is hard to do if you're following someone else's lead. if you follow your own lead and give no fucks, then you have held frame

[–]Vornnash0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

True, but at least his demeanor/frame is somewhat amiable. He's not faking it though like some guys who hold frame, he's a natural. It's a good example of what holding frame looks like anyway.

[–]CFRProflcopter( ͠° ͟ʖ ͡°)1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

True, but at least his demeanor/frame is somewhat amiable.

So "holding frame" = being yourself? TRP's advice to hold frame equates to "be attractive, don't be unattractive." Isn't that exactly what TRP criticizes BPers for?

[–]Vornnash0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You have to distinguish holding frame from naturals. Naturals don't need to hold frame, they are naturally themselves, enough people like it, and it doesn't require any special acting skills. If all men were naturals then nobody would have to practice frame. Frame holders are essentially practiced actors, being something that is not themselves at all times.

[–]CFRProflcopter( ͠° ͟ʖ ͡°)1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

So holding frame isn't always good. So why does TRP say to always hold frame?

[–]Vornnash-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Because their natural demeanor is that bad, or at least they believe it is.

[–]StabbyPantsPillhead-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a very unredpill example of an attractive dude - emotionally open, happy, smiley, no chips on his shoulder, no attempts to maintain frame or come across as overtly 'alpha'.

nah, he's RP: i can't imagine him getting too hung up on anyone or seeking their approval, he's likely got a bunch of stuff going on and he's happy to bring someone with (or not). basically, he's cute, having a good time, and likely outcome independent.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

hes sexy

[–]ianturpiesmoustache1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I dunno, but he's certainly not ringing my bell.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

he just needs a new hairstyle, take care of his stubble, and wear a better outfit. he has so much potential

[–]ianturpiesmoustache2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I like stubble, I just don't like his blondness, his crazy-eyes, or his mouth... there's just a whole lot that's off-putting to me.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

well, by the way hes talking, it obvious hes taken something lol.

[–]ianturpiesmoustache2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I'd say that's a fair bet.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He's cute, young, tall, nice accent, looks friendly. Charmingly naive. What's not to like?

[–]17b29a0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

he's not attractive o.o

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He reminds me a bit of Jason Becker, especially when he is smiling.

Charming and outgoing, but at the same time not really self-confident or even shy in a way. An interesting combination that seems to be attractive when you are younger, but not once reach the 30 mark.

[–]LaLaJoy0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

u/weirdlemonade81 said it best:

emotionally open, happy, smiley, no chips on his shoulder, no attempts to maintain frame or come across as overtly 'alpha'

I don't find his physical appearance or philosophy attractive, though, so he's not quite my type.

[–]whystoppnow0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women find this dude attractive? He's literally retarded.

[–]Jesusfuckkkk0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Hes goofily charming.But no one would dare date him

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What makes you say that? I'd date him.

[–]Vornnash1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How old are you?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He's not my type at all, but he's sorta attractive I guess.

[–]graycuh0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He is hot af. He's girthy. His face is just perfect. He has hair. He kind reminds me of Matthew mcconaughey in dazed and confused. All and all. 10/10 would fuck

[–]StabbyPantsPillhead-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

you're fucking kidding me, right? dude looks like own wilson.

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