Would you let your girl go on a vacation with another guy?

Lokismoke · 2014-12-18T07:45:11+00:00

Would I let her? I can't make her do anything. That's her choice.

Would she have a significant other waiting when she finished? No.

exit_sandman · 2014-12-18T09:00:35+00:00

I would break up with her if she went, because if I was in her position, I wouldn't take the offer (assuming the person offering is female).

wombatinaburrow · 2014-12-18T07:49:46+00:00

I find it strange that you wouldn't want to go on a special holiday with your SO; but each to their own, I guess.

[deleted] · 2014-12-18T16:19:46+00:00

I wouldn't go on such a trip and I'd break up with my boyfriend if he wanted to in a reverse situation....it doesn't seem like a respectful thing to do.

98769876987698767 · 2014-12-18T07:47:08+00:00

ahhhh......... poor guy. I would break up with a girl who decided to do this.

Traveling is all about the experience which is mostly about the people you go with and who you meet. If someone isn't willing to make some money of their own so they can have the amazing experience with the one they love most it is a shame but you should move on.

I've seen some shit when I was backpacking, I wouldn't really trust anyone.

antakip · 2014-12-18T08:58:32+00:00

If she'd do something like this, with a guy she doesn't know and obviously more expectations from the guy I'd tell her to fuck off. She can do it, but the relationship would be over.

On the other hand if she'd travel with a group of friends or alone and I don't have the chance to come along I wouldn't really care. I prefer to travel together, but I've travelled alone before as well so why can't she?

wazzup987 · 2014-12-18T10:00:21+00:00

Depends on the relationship dynamic. If it poly dynamic i would i might thrilled about it but i would, if it a mono dynamic then no.

buartha · 2014-12-18T10:42:04+00:00

In general, if they'd been friends a while, sure. If he was just some randomer she'd met recently, I'd be less impressed, and her decision could potentially affect our relationship depending on the circumstances.

If it were like the case in the article, it would really depend on the strength of our relationship. For a relatively new one where we still hadn't developed a bond of trust, I might be put off. If we'd been together a good long time and I knew my partner's boundaries and knew them well enough that I could put faith in their judgement, I wouldn't object (much.)

GridReXX · 2014-12-18T13:07:28+00:00

Doesn't really sound like she plans on even seeing this guy outside of the plane.

Either way that's a hard trip to turn down. Free and the world!

And the guy giving the ticket away doesn't sound creepy.

That said I would be uncomfortable if some chick offered this to my boyfriend.

It would depend on hot the chick was and if she were giving "steal your man" vibes.

feminazis_stalk_me · 2014-12-18T07:53:20+00:00

Absolutely - I'd let my girl go on vacations with several guys - her father, her brother, her male cousins and her uncles too!

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masterrod · 2014-12-22T07:53:30+00:00

You mean would I stay with her?

As long we're cool with fucking other people. I'm not going to be delusional enough to think that she's not going to fuck this dude.

Reginleifer · 2014-12-18T20:07:51+00:00

This is a situation where even I wouldn't go even if my so was okay with. It. For all the talk about caring about peoples feelings. The Bp sure seems okay with. Telling men to suck it up.

Fuck I wouldn't. Even go to an optional employees retreat if my so asked me not to go. I think sos are entitled to make those kinds of demands funny enough.....male or female.

[deleted] · 2014-12-18T22:23:40+00:00

Not much you can do to stop her, but I'd be moving on with my life in another direction as soon as she walked out the door. I don't consider myself insecure, but this is a step too far for anyone to put up with. Even if he doesn't the relationship will never be the same and die a slow death. Might as well get it over with.

Title	Would you let your girl go on a vacation with another guy?
Author	98769876987698767
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Date	December 18, 2014 7:32 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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