So, one of the highlights of security is getting to see how celebrities really party, seeing just how much they're allowed to get away with, and most importantly, getting to see how woman react to power, money, and fame.

Now, without fail, every time I've done security for a rapper, their backstage or behind curtain party is everything you'd imagine. Their tour manager will call out the freakiest, sluttiest looking girls from the crowd to come back and have me grab them. Girls then BEG me to let them go be sluts, and shit gets funny.

When I go back to check on the party the rappers are making the girls WORK for the lifestyle. Oh they'll buy you bottles and let you feel important but you have to work. You have to sell your dignity and body and respect for it. You better show skin. You better be a freak. You better let that rapper and his crew fulfill all of their earthly fantasies.

It's awesome watching capitalism at work.

My personal favorite is a rapper we all know who recently released a mix tape. You're not getting backstage without pulling out the tits or letting him degrade you in some way. He grabs girls from the ages of 21-40 and they all act the same way. Women who looked classy and dateable become the nastiest strippers you've ever seen on command.

On the other hand…the modern EDM DJ. I don't even know where to begin. These guys are the poster boy for the modern man. They give women everything and don't make them work for any of it. Any girl that begs hard enough or pushes her way to the front can get in.

They'll send their corny friends to go find girls, and sometimes they even pull hot ones, but I go backstage and they're having fucking conversations with them, letting these women live lavishly off their dime without doing anything to earn it.

Then, these same girls, come back night after night, entitled as fuck, like they just deserve to be backstage because they're semi cute girls.

I can hear the suckers and squares already, applauding these DJs and their friends for not taking advantage of these poor girls. NOPE. They want to fuck these girls but

A.Have no clue how to leverage their power and fame towards sex.

B.Are afraid of doing it.

C.Don't know how to pick women who really wanna fuck.

Rappers don't always pick the hottest girls, they pick the ones who know the drill. The one's who don't waste time. Often times, these coincide.

The biggest difference is that one group knows how to be direct, how to get what they want and get it immediately. The other group, despite all their power and fame and cultural wealth, have no means to get their desires filled.