Wife leaving analysis

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October 8, 2019

This is not exactly a question but a good real world example of being blue pilled and expert analysis of Rollo on this issue.

mods: if you deem this unfit here feel free to delete it but I think it'll help a bunch of people.

Tech lead is a YouTube vlogger/content creator/coder who worked for big companies like Google and Facebook. His wife left him and took his son with her.

Tech leads wife leaves him

Rollo's analysis

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Title Wife leaving analysis
Author tempotissues
Upvotes 16
Comments 20
Date 08 October 2019 04:34 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/289290
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/dev668/wife_leaving_analysis/
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[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando16 points17 points  (4 children) | Copy

Who is the old man dressed as a grunge teenager?

[–]RStonePT1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

ha! fucking guy

[–]hack3geRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck you - you just made me spit coffee on my keyboard.

[–]mindfulbutgutlessRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Looks like Ozzy if he never did drugs.... or just a little bit of drugs

[–]nosediver968 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

What the fuck. My gf/fiancé just walked out on me with my three year old son. This is what I’ve been wanting for months but now that it’s happened I feel empty. I feel like I’ve failed my son. This guy is pretty much me, except I have no sort of financial success yet.

[–]Big_Daddy_PDX0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

This feeling is incongruous with the claim that you’ve wanted this for months. Look into imposter syndrome and co-dependent relationships.

[–]nosediver960 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What do you mean??

[–]Iammrp27 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

I think this content is fine for askMRP. In fact I think we should have more of it so we can have good discussions (and add more to this sub than the same old retard posts).

Blue pill ideal- the way I would phrase what Tom is trying to communicate is: there's a difference between actually building a traditional nuclear family and believing in/wanting a fairy tale life. Nuclear families are the norm for humans but shit happens. Spouse may die, kid may die, spouse may cheat on you, you may get fired from a job, get depressed and she leaves you. you have to be prepared for whatever life throws at you.

[–]RStonePT2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Honestly, and this is coming from a guy who creates this stuff...

I don't think it belongs here. It's infotainment, meant to expose more people to the concepts in an easily digestible way, but it's no surrogate for actually hitting a sidebar and journalling ones MAP.

I'm saying this because I speak to a lot of guys lately who watch all this stuff, then phone for consults or write with questions. They watch a two hundred of our podcasts and still have made no effort to read the sidebar or learn about frame.

It's value is in its entertainment and a funnel to bring the occasional chad in waiting I to the loving arms of the sidebar, but turning MRP into a collection of pithy breakdowns would kill what makes this place special

Like, subscribe and hit the bell icon plZ

[–]Iammrp20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

For the most part I think you're right. We want to keep this place about experiences and not just theory craft/mental masturbation. What I liked about this video is it was about a guy's experience and Rollo broke it down nicely. Kind of like how these posts go.

[–]xumjov6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Skip the first 13+ minutes: https://youtu.be/oz9IQfjgiRI?t=830

[–]tom-anonymous2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm glad you posted it. Thanks.

[–]rnsbrum1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I sent a DM on instagram to him talking about the rational male and he said that he already read it. Dunno if he was trolling or not

[–]bumpiesttoad-4 points-3 points  (6 children) | Copy

Is Rollo universally respected by this sub? He has a lot of great insight to offer, I just worry taking one individual too seriously. I understand why he operates under a pseudonym for privacy reasons. Is there something special about him other than his books that give him credibility?

[–]tom-anonymous6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

You have to take every point of view from everyone with a grain of salt.

I agree with a lot of what Rollo says except a few things. For example, I don't think it's good advice when he says you have to break up with your wife in your head. I don't believe forming a detachment style to cope with the fact your wife may leave or cheat on you is the answer. The answer is being ok with it and moving on to something better if/when it happens.

[–]Iammrp24 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I just worry

Ok mom.

Do you have something meaningful to say or are you just here to concern troll? Don't reply. I already know the answer.

[–]RStonePT4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

No one is universally respected.

Worry about getting yours, then pass on a little of what you learned. Everything else is window dressing

[–]socalskweez0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

From what I have read here and there, he is going too mainstream for the likes of some on TRP.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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