Frame. Add game. Execute, rinse and repeat. Don’t stray off the path.

That’s pretty much it.

Don’t come here with “my story is a bit different. I am a snowflake. I messaged the mods and it’s ok. I don’t need to provide stats. She she she. She this, she that”

Don’t come asking questions you can’t answer yourself. If I had a dollar for every time I started writing a question for askMRP, and stopped after figuring out the answer myself after a few sentences, I’d go out to a nice dinner.

As you write, ask yourself: how is my frame right now? U/ strategos_autokrator wrote a 3 part piece here on Frame. Internalize that. Understand it’s everything. Once you do that, add game and tactics and what I call “bitch management” skills. Like never argue with your woman. Always approach, fuck her like it’s your last fuck. Follow 16 Commandments of Poon.

She’s the fucking weather. Moody, amazing, stormy, hot, wet etc. You’re a fucking mountain. Or big strong oak. You bend a little, with the winds, but that’s about it. You come back to your badass frame. Your frame is all you got. Your life’s work. Much more important that your woman. It’s your compass, your true north.

Stray too far from that, start feeling sorry for yourself, and you’re off your game. She senses it with her innate, alpha seeking, sixth sense. She’ll either duty fuck you, duty stay-married in dead bedroom with you wondering why you have blue balls, or just say no and go fuck someone else, sooner or later.

All this is of course a lot easier (admittedly it is and it was for me) if you start an LTR years into red pill, and after already blowing up a first marriage. But if you’re in a dead BR situation, do the soul searching necessary, work up the dread, and ultimately ask yourself: is this the life you want to live 3 years from now? 5 years? Only you can answer that. Be fucking honest.

We’re here for tactics and advice, us guys who have been at it for a while, but if you BS yourself no one can come in to really help you.