A story about my sweet ex:

My ex and I dated for a year from 27-28 and I treated her as nicely as I could. I made it seem like she was the only one for me.When we started dating I was jobless and broke but borrowed money for cheap dates.In the time we dated I started a small baking business selling to a cafeteria at first. Although I was making money I dint tell her how much and kept on being frugal because I ddint want to buy her over with lavish dates or gifts.

We were doing ok having problems but I was happy apparently she wasn't. At 9 months some dude from work comes along and starts trying to get her. I ignored her stories saying she could do what she wants.

She broke up with me and went on a few dates with the dude. I didn't know this till later. We kept in touch mostly due to lonliness and she mentioned how she broke up because in the time dating we werent goining anywhere. She wants to get married and have kids ect...

Little did she know instead of blowing all the money nice dates and gifts I was saving up. I mentioned in passing my baking business was doing well and I had been saving up and had bought a car to help make deliveries and a bunch of things for my baking business and set 1k apart for car expences and emergencies.

A couple of days later she calls me and tells me she broke up with me because the dude wouldnt stop chasing her trying to lay the blame on him. The dude just wanted to get laid and when he noticed she wanted something serious he stopped going out with her.

She thought she had me or anyone hook line and sinker. In reality she hit the wall in our time dating (gained weight, wrinkles ect.) but I didnt mind and never mentioned it just like I hid how well I was doing.

Just last week she came to my house to try to seduce me to get back together. She was lost without me and couldnt live without me ect... I almost drove her back to her place to have sex and then never get back to her but I didnt want to be cruel and gave her $10 to take a taxi home. I then masturbated.

tldr: My ex and I dated 9 months and in that time I started a baking business which I told her nothing about moneywise. She left me for a chance to be with someone that was apparently better off then me but in the end wanted to pump and dump. I reveal I wasnt as broke just frugal and had been saving up and bought a car in. She comes crawling back trying to blame the guy. I wont have any of it and gave her $10 to take a taxi home.

Edit: Have to do get my car checked by the government (a yearly ecuadorian thing) Ill answer when I get back.

Edit 2: Im back.