What is your cold approach conversion rate?

Hungboy6969420 · 2019-11-29T12:03:48+00:00

I honestly believe Women don't get approached nowhere near the amount they claim. I think the reason why they say they get approached a lot is because 1). It makes them look like they have HSV (high sexual value) and 2). it makes other Women jealous

When I was in College/Uni the majority of my Classes was probably around 80% Women. Whenever I was around my female friends during those years they very rarely got approached by a guy (and typically it was just a guy doing a survey or handing out flyers) and they were beautiful. Women talk a lot of crap lol.

TheYoonFather · 2019-11-29T19:17:06+00:00

It’s a numbers game. Cold approach enough and you will have success. Be genuine and take a real interest in something about her or something going on in the environment.

You stick out a lot to the girls you do cold approach. Most guys will never do that.

It’s always a success when you overcome the anxiety and do it, even if you get shut down. It will do wonders for your confidence in general. Don’t try to put a percentage on cold approach success unless it’s been your own experiences. Get out there and do it and fuck anyone who tells you it doesn’t work. It does.

BurnoTaurus · 2019-11-29T12:38:39+00:00

Cold approach is becoming less viable among the younger generations. It varies based on where you live and is predominantly linked to how developed i.e. Americanized the location is.

The reasons are rather simple. Technology allows for socialization to take place virtually while requiring a fraction of the amount of resource expenditure. As more people select alternatives to physical interaction, we have less opportunity to practise socializing, approaching etc. We now live in an era of rape culture propaganda and other such messages that make the average woman more wary, less approachable, and guys, being conscious of this, will err on the side of caution.

Cold approach absolutely still has merit. Everything I've written here should not be read as "excuses to not cold approach" its just a realistic assessment of the SMP as it currently sits. Some girls are super jumpy when a stranger approaches, everybody plans things virtually and then arrives at events and finds their friends. The whole idea of just going somewhere and meeting new people is not nearly as prevalent in 2019 as it would have been decades ago.

FilthyStylish · 2019-11-29T10:21:09+00:00

My conversion rate, just like 99.9% of this community, is 100%.

100% failure because we never approach.

smgtn · 2019-11-29T14:35:08+00:00

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bigmaddenguy · 2019-11-29T18:33:25+00:00

Cold approach will go better or worse depending on certain factors. I could probably cold approach 10 4s and convert 80% of the time, but what does that even tell you? Also, bar will be more optimal than day game.

In my experience approaching, I would say I close about 75% of the girls I try to... but I consider myself very well-versed in reading girls' IOIs, knowing which kinds of girls like me, etc, before I even talk to them. So I'm not blindly firing arrows hoping they'll hit a target.

As for how often girls get approached... not very often in day-to-day life. My current LTR is very hot--could model if her body was a little narrower, but she has a nice ass too. She doesn't go out because she's with me, but she isn't approached too much in day-to-day life. Any job she gets it's inevitable a guy or 2 will like her and try talking to her, in class she mostly gets weird shit like notes passed to her, but that's like once per class per semester also. According to her, she's been directly cold approached on campus twice ever--and we're seniors.

Now, going out is a different story. Really hot girls will constantly have a guy talking to them if you watch them. Even with her, if I just go to the bathroom, it's not uncommon to come back and have her tell me a guy in insert direction tried to hit on her while I was in the bathroom. I've had bisexual guys try to hit on us both, one time a guy strangely followed us for a long time (very drunk guy), the attention--both positive and negative--is absurd in drunk situations.

Why? Because most men have no balls. They're only confident and comfortable with themselves drunk. So, in the sober world, these girls get limited approaches--on a night out, they'll swim in them. And that's why girls love going out so much.

linkofinsanity19 · 2019-11-29T20:26:41+00:00

I've finally started doing more cold approaches lately and I'm noticing that when I do, these women don't act like it happens to them very often. I'm still less than 30 total, but these women act like it's their first time ever, or at least in a long time. They act really surprised and are a bit flustered. Keep in mind I'm usually pretty direct with my approaches currently, so there's not a lot of room for them to confuse my intentions.

Maybe they get more indirect approaches that dude doesn't go for the number or date so it's different for then. I can't say for sure on that, but they don't really seem to act like it happens a lot, though I haven't approached anything higher than an 8 yet, so maybe the 9s and 10s get it a lot. However, I'd think they get it even less because of the intimidation factor pushing most guys to bitch out, including myself on a few occasions. Working on that bit.

thrwy75479 · 2019-11-29T22:41:34+00:00

60% of the time it works every time.

Andgelyo · 2019-11-29T13:02:56+00:00

Every weekend I go approaching with my brother and friends (despite being in a LTR, I do it for fun). Typically I at least cold approach 3 girls on a given night. I’ll usually get a number (or if you count Instagram, which I never add them) out of 1 of those 3 girls. Some days I don’t get any at all, but most days I at least bag 1 out of 3. I don’t know how to calculate that shit lmao

Domebeers · 2019-11-29T15:56:39+00:00

I can almost always get a number on cold approach, like 90% of the time. But a number doesn't really mean much. I don't quite count that as a win.

I instadate off cold approach but I don't know if it counts. Like if I cold approach at the dog park and we end up spending the walk together, is that a date? I don't quite think so. But it isn't nothing. So I'd say maybe 20% or less for me I can turn it into a coffee or something. I find it's dependent on where you are at when you do it.

My cold approach same day fuck ratio isn't high. Maybe has happened a couple of times, and I pretty much had to spend hours with them. (I'm not talking about club cold approach pickups, I mean like a grocery store or dog park pickup).

Hot girls do get approached a lot.

pointingklpllp · 2019-11-29T10:42:57+00:00

I have daygamed for avout 4 years now .The bestdaygamers I've met have said 1 in 30. From daygame. Approach to close.

bruiser18 · 2019-11-29T11:04:58+00:00

I wouldn’t take advice from people who only pull 3% of girls they approach. That’s 3 in 100. You got to be an ugly fuck to be that unsuccessful.

YouWannaPutMoneyOnIt · 2019-11-29T15:40:38+00:00

I never approach, but when I do it goes well.

I have extreme approach anxiety but have never been turned down.

I don’t really know why 😂

Title	What is your cold approach conversion rate?
Author	smgtn
Upvotes	16
Comments	54
Date	November 29, 2019 9:21 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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