This is my first time posting here. I'm not fully religious yet, but I find my ideal partner should be on tract. Since I'm vetting while having more abundance, I stumbled across a wonderful girl. So here are my stats before my question:
29 YO single RedPilled 3 weeks, redpill aware 3 months. (OYS on MarriedRedPill)
HT 5'6" WT 131 BF 14%
I broke up with my LTR and met interesting girls. One who likes me is religious and checks all boxes, and I recognize she is a marriage material, and she is looking for marriage and strict about sexuality. I'm talking to several girls beside her to maintain my abundance.
Her issue is that she requires a man to be religious and on high manners. I'm not here yet, esoically with the use of swearing words, and I don't want to do anything for her sake. But to keep my beta on check, since I may say something stupid fearing the sting of nexting her due to incompatibility, I want to make sure that I'm approaching this in a full redpill manner.
I'll be upfront and transparent "At this stage of my life journey, XYZ are my top priorities on self improvement. I have some weaknesses that may be relevant to your selection of a partner, like my regular usage of swear words. I understand that it's not ideal manners, but it's important for me to focus my efforts on XYZ first because it impacts me more in ABC ways.
If it is more pleasing to your ears, I will try my best not to use swear words around you. However, I do not want to misrepresent myself here, so my usage of swear words will still maintain regularity outside of our conversations. If it is critically important for you that in the long run your partner does not have such manners, I may make these changes in the distant future because I do see merit in how it relates to exemplary manners and character, but I would need the space and time to make these changes of my own accord without any undue pressure. I'd love to hear your thoughts on my priorities and terms on this."
Please don't go easy on me.