Gentleman,
Copied the below segment from a sub of male-female interaction.
This is what the guy did. But what would YOU do in this situation?
Enjoy.
“I had an experience a couple years ago, where this woman I was on a third date with (yes, we made out every time I saw her, and spent the night at her house once already) got approached by some guy in the club. I expected her to shoo him away, but she didn't and was angry when I saw her putting her phone number into his phone. But, I played it cool and didn't react or say anything. About 20 minutes later, we see him again, and she asks me if she can go dance with him. I tell her it's not very cool, and she gives me the riot act about how she just got out of a long term relationship and she can do whatever she wants because we're not in a committed relationship. Then she went and danced with him. (My thought on that was that, it's true that we're not in a committed relationship, and it's too early for her to see me exclusively, but it's a shitty thing to do to someone when you're on a date with them. It a very good way to kill any attraction that your date has for you. If she had done that when I wasn't around, that's not really that big of a problem. The fact that she was willing to risk it means that she didn't really like me that much.) And the end of the song, she kissed him. I didn't confront the guy or anything, but I was pretty amped up on adrenaline, so who knows how I might act in a similar situation. It wouldn't have surprised me if she told him that I was "just a friend" even though I most definitely wasn't - just because that's easier than saying "that's some other guy I'm seeing".
I stopped seeing her because I lost ALL attraction for her at that moment. She told me she wanted to keep seeing me, though. Last time I talked to her, she said that other guy never talked to her again - which I'm happy about.”
*I do not condone or support directly or indirectly disrespecting any parties involved. This is not about the unknown people. It’s about the situation & what you would have done instead. It’s an opportunity for us all to learn & grow*
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